He thought my mom was me and asked my mom if "I" could sneak out..he was REALLY close to my mom and dad and now i dont think its going to go so well!! Help me!!! PLEASE what can i do to keep this going..im hoping my mom and dad will forget about this!!!!
2007-04-30 19:44:38 · 18 answers · asked by llama_much_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They won't forget. But just how much did he say? Did he make it obvious you had already snuck out on previous occassions? Maybe you could say he asks every time he calls but you're holding out and he keeps asking anyway, even though he knows the answer.. Is it possible to pull it off like it was all a joke? It all depends on how much was said,how much you've already done, how much your parents know and how seriously they take it. You could always try the truth--believe it or not your parents have more experience and are wiser than you. What they decide for you at this point in your life is likely the best in the long run.
( how close is he with your mom and dad? You sure you didn't catch him asking your mom out ?Ha Ha
2007-04-30 20:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello dear
lol,i was searching for the meaning of sneak out in dictionary
it must be a great problem in your love life
but any way there is a way for him to escape
you have said that your mother and dad see him as theri son
there is a safe exit for him .ask him to say a big sorry to your parents,but i guss the problem will be still more worse!
i think both of yours sneeaking behaviour have come to light
how r u going to handle this is going to matter more?
however worse the situation go do not argue with your parents because it might further worsen the situation
camly ,cooly ,politely explain them your love story
talk to them in a matured manner !say that u" like him and i will wait until you approve us" give the deciding authority to them for the time being .a personal messege for u dont lose hope and wait patiently
it is true that your parents already have soft corner for him
so wait let your angry parents shout at him or do watever they want definitely they will calm down .but it will take some time wait patiently
patient is the need of the hour! no other thing is needed at this time dont get angry,or lose hope
all the best
2007-05-01 03:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom you will never forgive her if she sneaks out with him.
Seriously, I think you guys are going to have to do some serious trust-building if you want to go on seeing each other.
He needs to understand that you need your mom and dad to trust you. They won't forget about it, but you might be able to convince them you learned something from the experience, which your mom and dad must might laugh about once they get over being upset with you for conspiring against them.
And I know you didn't do it, but somehow you let him think it would be okay with you to sneak out.
Believe it or not, most parents (and I am speaking as one) want to trust their kids. You hurt us if you betray that trust--or if your boyfriend betrays it. So read him the riot act and hope the dust settles and your parents only attach a ten pound ball-and-chain to your ankle.
Good luck! (By the way, I'd forgive you and let you date if I was sure you'd learned your lesson.)
2007-04-30 19:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They aren't going to forget about this. It depends on what else he said also but I think he's going to have a hard time being his old natural sweet self around them.
You don't say how old you are and how old he is but that does make a difference. I don't know what you mean by 'what can I do to keep this going' - do you mean how do you continue seeing him?
I hope that your parents speak to his parents. That would be the best way to address this, after they speak to the both of you, of course.
I don't know how they could stop you from seeing him but they could simply watch you as closely as they can. Once trust is lost, it's hard to regain.
2007-04-30 19:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have been sneaking out I suggest you fess up. If you are sneaking out than your parents have every right not to forget this. You and your boyfriend must prove you are trust worthy by following all the rules your parents set from now on.
2007-04-30 19:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be up front and honest about being caught and own the mistake. Try to give a relevant reason for why he wanted you to do this and perhaps have your boyfriend speak to your parents and tell them that even though he was asking you to do so he didnt expect you to agree as he knows that you wouldnt do it. He just really needed to see you. Be very sorry and try to do the right thing by getting your boyfriend to speak to your parents.
It will all blow over if he owns his mistake, but expect your parents to be annoyed as I would wring my daughters neck if she snuck out without telling me. Your parents are only looking out for you and will loosen the leash when you are old enough. I know I let my daughter off her lease when she finished school and turned 18 and she was on a very tight leash. She has turned out to be a very intelligent and trustworthy person, so just trust your parents judgement as they are the only people who truly have your best interests at heart.
2007-04-30 19:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your folks that you find this boy to be a not so nice young man that thought you were going to sneak out---but you wouldn't think of risking a bunch of trouble for him or anyother guy. That should do it. I have picked up plenty of dead and injured kids that snuck out---that's what parents fear the most. Think it won't happen??? Don't risk it--you will be old enough to go out soon enough--be cool and do the right thing----and tell this boy never to call you again....good luck.
2007-04-30 19:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hun, he just screwed it up for you if you wanted to keep sneaking out.. Sorry, but I don't think your parents will forget that.
2007-04-30 19:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by red_rabbit239 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahaa....OMG that's horrible! He's going to have to earn back the trust your parents gave him. It won't be easy and will probably take a few months but if he sticks with it, they'll eventually come around again.
2007-04-30 19:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt they will forget it. And not only that but he has given them a reason to not trust him or you.
You will just have to deal with the consequences but remember, this is his and possibly your doing. Be grown up about it and accept them gracefully.
2007-04-30 19:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋