Hey well First of I am not gay, bi, curious or anything else like that. I don't know what the hell happened. I was hanging out talking with my fiance's dad got really drunk, and the next morning I woke up naked in bed with him. I know what you're gonna say that how do I know that we actually did anything together. Trust me I know. I wont say how, but I know. I just don't know what to do. We're getting married next month. I know I have to tell her. I also know it's really gonna **** things up. I just don't know how to tell her, or what to do.
2007-04-30 19:42:04 · 20 answers · asked by Big Steve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude..................i've got nothing.
2007-04-30 19:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by David K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would confront the dad first, if you don't know what happened , you may have been given a date rape drug. Yes, men get that also. I have heard of a few times when a man has been given a date rape drug and ended up in a situation like yours. You need to address this bast*** that would be so heartless to slip something into your drink and then take you to bed. That is the stuff that perverts do and it destroys their children! Address this puke and tell him that you are going to tell his daughter what he did to you. Make sure that you tell your girlfriend that you do not remember what happened and that you woke up naked in his bed. When a man has that much loss of memory, it is not drinking, it is the date rape drug. I only wish you would have gone in and had your blood tested to check it out. I do know that it is very hard to detect because there are so many of them that the hospitals have trouble figuring out which one it is. But I would not let this guy get away with it. Let his daughter know what a slime ball her dad is.
2007-04-30 19:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by gigi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as both one among you're of criminal age there is no longer something unlawful about it. Creepy and immoral, certain. unlawful, no. the basically exceptions might want to be if it might want to be unlawful that you'll be able to sleep with him regardless if he grow to be your fiance's dad or no longer...likely if he grow to be your well being care service or therapist. Even then, that's more advantageous unethical - it may fee him his license, notwithstanding it likely gained't get criminal costs.
2016-11-23 19:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a predicament you got yourself into. Well...let's see. Perhaps you should tell the truth to your fiance because she has the right to know. If she had slept with your mother then you would have the right to know, wouldn't you?. Being drunk makes you do stupid things, hence the saying drink responsibly.
2007-04-30 20:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Leetah 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how do u figure u can go over to the in-laws house for thanksgiving or christmas knowing u felt him from the inside....lol your not gonna be able to look at him the same and eventually the family will notice, u will cause a lot of drama. u cant marry this girl now man.
2007-04-30 19:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by jdeez 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dammmmnnn, maaannn. That must have been one wild bachelor party. Honestly though, were you the pitcher or the catcher. Cause if caught, thats gonnna be really awkward. I guess your not the only one who's in-laws are a pain the ***.
2007-04-30 19:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Alexander C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her because sooner or later she will find out and it's going to destroy her please don't wait till she is married , she doesn't deserve it... if you really care about her think about her feelings and please be honest with her and let her be free, think how painful is going to be and even worse if she's married to you... please tell her now... and i don't know what to say, how can you have sex with a man and not be gay or at least curious or something, maybe you don't want to admit it but theres gotta be something going on there.. .what does her father say????? he is a horrible person, he is worse then you how can he do that to his daughter...
2007-04-30 19:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude...tell her and then move really far away. Damn what a messed up way to find out both your fiancee and your Dad are gay.
2007-04-30 19:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by ztns9 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont tell her and enjoy the gift of giving,your fiance deserves a break because she probably has been getting it for years from the same guy.
2007-04-30 19:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you should totally tell her. You probably wont get married, but at least she wont marry a liar, cause she's bound to find out and then probably hate you.
2007-04-30 19:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by kchilian85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lolllll,
I thought you were female.
Did you know your future dad in law is bi ??
were you attracted to him all the time ??
Both of you never considered your fiancee, and speaking about her dad (even in this day and age) is perturbing.
does your fiancee know you're bi ??
If you have'nt been honest to her about that you're deluding every one bud, yourself included.
This is all about being with her own dad and you being male.
This is gonna blow her bud, this is gonna blow her mind if you aint told her nothing bout yourself, then she has to find out bout dad.
She's gonna bolt for two yrs b4 she even thinks about talking to dad again.
She's been betrayed BIG TIME.
Another male, ok, you could work that through, her own dad,
come on dude work it out, it don't need spelling out !!
2007-04-30 19:57:41 · answer #11 · answered by crr_rndy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋