Hey for you girls, I have a question for you?

Question

To get a girls attention or to get them to like you does that whole method of ignoring them and pretending to not agnowledge their existence and like acting all cool and stuff (not like a fake but how you really are) when there around you... does that actually work? im justa bit too shy too talk to them

Answer 1

NO! TALK TO US! IF YOU WANT US GROW SOME BALLS, WE DONT WANT A PU$$Y! NO AFFENCE!

Answer 2

No. Well, "desperation" isn't attractive either. But ignoring them is not going to work either. i admit some girls do find that "chase" attractive but you'd be taking a HUGE chance because the girl you like could very well not be into that at all.

My advice is to balance yourself; Smile at her, talk to her, but if she pulls away from a conversation w/ you, or tells you she'll call but doesn't, don't call her to ask her why. Show her you like her, but don't act like you can't live without her. That is, until you're dating. Obviously, when you began dating, you want to take a more affectionate role. Most importantly, be yourself. Don't ever be someone you're not because she'll find out, she won't like you for you, & you'd just have wasted time.

Answer 3

As you say that you are a shy one, at the same time a girl who likes you may also be of same type. Hence no equation cannot be established except 0 = 0.

Reasons or factors of attraction differs from person to person and there is no definite criteria to gain the same.

It cannot be created - rather it happens and without any definition, selection etc.

Answer 4

Ignoring them is not a great way to let them feel like you like them. Would you like a girl you had a crush on to talk to you, or totally ignore you and act 'too cool'?
If its shyness though, not ignoring, they can tell the difference. Maybe just give them a smile or something that makes it obvious that your interested.

Answer 5

No! If you wanna keep a girl interested just give her alittle eye contact and just give her alittle smile and then look away and you'll have her attention the whole night. Then just move closer towards her when shes lost your sight and then get next 2 her and say hi looking for someone?

Answer 6

ignoring people isnt kool. at some point you have to talk to them, so ignoring them doesnt help. try getting with a group of people that she hangs out with too, and if you get a chance, just talk about something thats going on around you to start off

Answer 7

the trick is to engage in a bit of convo, confidently tease them a bit but remain positive... act like you're interested... be flirtatious... then look at your cellphone, say you gotta go and bounce. drives them crazy. they'll be much more interested the next time they see you. and if you don't think you'll get the chance to see her again, make sure you get the digits before you roll out... happy huntin

Answer 8

No that does not work. If you act like your not Interested, more than likely they will get the impression that you are not Interested. The odd not so noticeable eye contact and smile will have much more effect.

Answer 9

It never works with me. If someone ignores me I just feel like they don't like me. Even if you're shy try to talk to someone a little bit. It won't hurt.

Answer 10

No it doesn't work. If you show interest and talk to them about themselves and try to get to know them, you stand a much better chance of making a new girlfriend.

Answer 11

You need to smile, say hi, you must acknowledge them and make them feel like they exist. Say good morning w/ a smile, it's suprising how far that can go.