Me and my best friend met a guy at our local bowling alley.
We thought he looked interesting and he seemed to feel the same as he gave us his number so we could get to know each other.
He says when we first met he liked my friend more, But now he's got to know me he likes me alot.
But he is saying he doesn't want to choose one of us incase it hurts the other.
I haven't been able to concentrate on anything or think properly due to thinking about the situation.
What should I/can I do?
Thanks x
2007-04-30 19:28:07 · 9 answers · asked by Laura_2k6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend likes him, But yesterday she was willing to find another guy so I could be with him.
I'm not exactly sure how she feels towards him.
2007-04-30 19:35:10 · update #1
What an idiot. He's hinting at a threesome already! Both of you deserve better men out there.
2007-04-30 20:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should graciously back out of this triangle. He and your friend were evidently an item before you and him became an item therefore, even though you basically met at the same time, he did choose her before getting to know you.
If they breakup then it is a different story. If it were the other way around what would you expect your friend to do?
2007-05-01 02:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he just want his cake and eat it too, have you heard of that saying, Tell him he know that he can't have both of you, that he says he like you more than he should tell your friend that he is going to date you. If he do not pick than you and your friend should drop him and let him go pay games with someone else felling.It will take both of you to let him go, or else he will stay with the one to make the other fell jealous, make him suffer and if he do really want to be with one of you he will choose.
2007-05-01 02:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone has to make a decision before you and your friend have a problem. I suggest that you and your friend discuss the situation, and one of you back out of the picture.
2007-05-01 02:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...how does your friend feel about him? If she's into him, back off. If she's indifferent about him, and you like him, tell her the truth. And then see him yourself. Don't be surprised if he's wishy-washy and drops you for another girl, though. Why can't you all just be friends without any commitments?
2007-05-01 02:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he needs to pick before one of yall starts getting alot of feeling of him and dont wanna let go . You and your friend talk it over if all cant choose then ask him to pick...
2007-05-01 02:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by Giovanna R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, anyguy who is shaky about not choosing doesnt deserve the time.
2007-05-01 02:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by kchilian85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u add me to ur myspace cutie thats exactly what u do ;)
2007-05-01 02:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cannot have your cake and eat it too-he's a player stay clear-you don't need any std's
2007-05-01 02:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by llgarrett69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋