On 4/25 my life changed. It was my 2 year anniversery. I have been having problems with my girl for 2 months. I planned on celebrating our anniversery but she never came home. I called her at 1:30 am she answered her phone and asked what the hell i wanted. i asked where she was at. She was either high or drunk and she said im with my boyfriend in bed. I was crushed, She did cheat on me before but we were togather 3 days. So i dont consider it horrible. We always had a rocky relationship etc. I called her again that night she said she hates me and wishes for her anniversary gift i would blow my head off. She simpley turned on me i have a pfa against her now she has just snapped. She has always had problems and been in theropy. After she has done this to me my world has just stopped. I have had a very tough life. I was wondering if i should seek a theropist as i just have a lot of anger built up and a lot of things including what my x did is just killing me inside.
2007-04-30 17:59:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You don't need therapy. You need to grow some balls.
Ditch the *****, and quit whining about it.
Come to think of it, she probably boffed a guy who doesn't whine. Coincidence? I don't think so.
2007-04-30 18:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
It sounds like she has spent a lot of time "projecting" , meaning making her problems yours and then trying to crucify you. Is she bipolar? It's best if you keep your distance and pull yourself back together. Speaking to a therapist is not a bad idea, but, before you go, see if you can think of anything that may have caused her to "go off". Usually when a person is bipolar, they feel that they are entitled to certain things or behaviors, which is not realistic, but it comes from their defense mechanism-kill or be killed, you know? So you may not have done everything right but she may be waaaaaaay out of bounds, you know? Dont feel anger, feel pity for her and just stay away. You can email me if you want.
Take care,
Love
FW
2007-04-30 18:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that sucks and I'm sorry to hear that. honestly i wouldn't resort to therapy just yet. i have had the same problem many a times and ya it does hurt and suck what you should try is to just keep your self busy, clean your house do some chores, get a hobby ( working on remote control cars is pretty fun.) go out with friends and stay with the friends always know how to cheer you up, and just don't think bout her no matter what have fun and enjoy life
2007-04-30 18:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by d04srt4boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes see a therapist please it would help you. But as for her screw her dont think about that *****. If shes going to do that to you then she can go rot in ****. There are billions of women out there go get you one that will be kinda and loving to you and who wont cheat on you. Forget that that **** ever existed. I wish you the best in life and i know how it is to have to deal with a g/f like that it really is no fun but focusing on it isnt going to help your mind any. So please seek help and move on with your life. I wish you the best!
2007-04-30 20:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Chance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said she did this before am i not right. once this happens it will again learn from this and move on in life with a girl who has morals be glad you aint married to her . in my opion you see how she is move on in life not back in her style of life it.s only going to get worse with her good luck and learn from this like many have . my opion?
2007-04-30 18:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need therapy, you need a new girlfriend
good luck
2007-04-30 18:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by bobbie v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get therapy and get over the dumb ***** she didn't deserve you and she is a whore for what she did... you deserve someone better...
2007-04-30 18:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by Eclipse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋