he broke up with me...i never knew it was coming...we didnt ever fight and our relationship was great...he just had some questions with whether or not i was "the one" since the break up we still have sex and hang out....and its a great time....whats up?
2007-04-30 17:31:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would he want to get together?
He's got the best of both worlds. He gets to boff you, and he doesn't have to put up with your sh!t.
Face it. He doesn't love you. He just loves doing you.
Seriously, where the hell were all the girls who lacked dignity and self-respect when *I* was single?
2007-04-30 17:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get mad over this, but you are just being a Booty Call girl. He is just coming around to you for a piece. He does not want the relationship, he wants the sex. If you are ok with that, well thats great and your business. But if you are thinking that you are still gonna have a relationship with this guy well its every doubtful. What is that old saying, about buying the cow when the milk is free? (not calling you a cow-its just a old saying).
If you are cool with no commitment and just want the sex with him, well keep hanging out together. If not then move on.
2007-04-30 17:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait a little while longer and then approach the subject of whether or not he now thinks you're "the one". Some couples including married people get along much better after the pressure of being a couple is gone and they start to just focus on what they like about the other person and then realize they should be together.
2007-04-30 17:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...
rule # 1 of a successful break-up: don't sleep with your ex.
find someone you're not attached to who can be your sex-buddy...
the reason this is a rule is because if you break it, it can lead you to believe there is still potential in a relationship. i believe "second chances" have to be earned.. and clearly he doesn't think you deserve one if he hasn't taken you back yet.
my guess is, he enjoyed your realtionship - the sex, the good time - but he KNOWS he doesn't have a future with you. so why lose a good thing? he'll just keep you around until he finds "the one"...
honey, do yourself a favor and learn the lesson - your rebound guy CAN'T be your ex. that's just how life works.
2007-04-30 17:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by ashwee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Mary, I have a question: Did the ex...when he was BF feel wanted around you---sayyyyy---when you brought him over to meet YOUR family???? Or did family--intentional or otherwise--have the guy feel left out, ignored like an outsider??
Assurredly, that's a big time relationship killer if not found and positively treated. Sounds like a medical condition, doesn't it? Gets challenging when HE doesn't tell YOU his hurt feelings, either.
Why should he, eh? Maybe he wants someone who can REALLY read right his feelings and knows what to do if they get hurt.....hmmmmm.......now that might be a clue there.
2007-04-30 17:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can any one say booty-call? Please you need to just break away from him. He is so lucky he gets all the perks of having a realationship with you, but none of the work. You have nothing with this guy except sex. He will have whatever conversation he has to just to get your butt. Why have you not moved on? If you have low self esteem go to a couselor, but your realationship is not healthy for you. Look he is having sex with you;and whomever else he wants to. You are just his BOOTY-CALL.Please tell me there are condoms being used in this situation. Love yourself, respect youself,protect yourself.
2007-04-30 17:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kathrine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what up is that he using you, the fact that he broke up with
you because he did not know if you were the one. but he
still seeing you sleeping with you. sound like you are
something to do and you deserve much better then the
looser. time to kick him to the curb and go find your self
a real man he not the one. trust me as long as you allow
this kind of behavior the harder it will get. because you
know that when something better come along he will
cut you loose faster then you can say boo.
2007-04-30 17:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your being a fool thats whats up. your giving him his freedom but with all the perks of a relationship. He gets to go and keep looking and if he cant find something better you get to be runner up? Thats rediculous, tell this boy, its me and me alone or its over completely. If it were me he would be gone. I would never wanted to be treated that way and i think you deserve better too!
2007-04-30 17:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by bighelp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately sex isnt everything in a relationship, it sounds like he may be using you and doesnt have the same feelings about you that you have for him. move on because in the long run when he finds someone else you will be the one that is hurting.
2007-04-30 17:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by courtney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes your best friend, been there,, i love my girlfriend now she loves her boyfriend,, you should have never been married,, just friends,, keep it that way it will last longer than any relationship you have,, quit having sex when in a relationship with others if you want to keep it,, yall were ment for each other but it wasent ment to happen,,she your best friend,,for real
2007-04-30 17:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋