the colour is hot pink ..... i am stressed and she knew what colour the bridesmaid dresses were and the flowers but she still went and bought that dress...... what should i do change my flowers now? she wont buy a new dress
2007-04-30 17:12:49 · 29 answers · asked by PEBBLES777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
What is your problem???? She was trying to fit in to the color scheme. Give the woman a break and stop bit$&ing already. Get her a beautiful complimentary corsage and shut up. Grow up also. It can really be sickening to hear the "but it's my wedding whine out of every self centered spoiled child who is getting a wedding that she's probably not even paying for. Sounds like you have some real control issues. I hope hubby to be thinks twice about getting into it with you.
2007-04-30 17:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by sashali 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
That's up to you, but think of it this way. How old is she? Most older women do not look very good in hot pink. That's a young person's color. I wouldn't change a thing. You liked that color, you picked that color, and ordered flowers to reflect that. Just go ahead and go with the flow. Learn how to do this now, as it sounds like you better be getting use to it. Good luck.
2007-05-04 12:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with her dress matching the flowers? She will just blend in better with the pictures. I definitely would not change my flowers. It would look like you are backing down to her. Stand your guard and use the flowers you want regardless. A lot of us have mother in law's like that; it is just better to not let them know that anything they do bothers you. Belive me. Have fun! :)
2007-05-04 09:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by BamaBelle810 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter. It's odd that hot pink is such a popular color at your wedding, but if she wants to wear the same color as your bridesmaids and your flowers- whatever. It won't make of break your wedding and if it makes her happy why not? She'd stick out more if she were the only one in hot pink.
2007-04-30 18:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by K S 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that she is not wearing black with a big floppy hat.
Breath and don't stress over minor issues as this.
At least she is matching all of you, might prove to be pretty for the pictures.
I really would think twice before saying something to her...
Wait...did you already say something...your last statement...she wont buy a new dress....Oh hon, I have never in all my years....heard of a Bride to be telling the Mother in law what she can and can not wear....
Stop and think about the damage you could be doing for you and your future hubby....
Step back.....Look at the big picture.....and breath....
Life is too short.....
Best wishes
2007-04-30 18:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is the problem? Every wedding I've ever coordinated, both mothers' dresses matched the wedding colors. It's a dress. Get over it. Unless, of course, your trying to sabotage your relationship with your new mother-in-law. In that case, by all means, make a huge production of it and show the man you claim to love how much of a b***ch you really are. I'm sure he'll love having you embarass and humiliate his mother.
2007-04-30 18:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by cherlindra2 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
She is making an effort to match your colour scheme, relax and let her wear it, I doubt anyone will remember what she was wearing, most people don't remember what the BRIDE wore if you asked them a week later. You are stressing over such a small, minor detail, I would rather my mother and mother in law wore outfits that blended in with my colours rather than clashing horribly!!!
2007-05-01 00:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why should she buy a new dress? Its only the same colour as your flowers...this is not a healthy way to start off the relationship with her....
2007-04-30 17:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
Um, sorry but this sounds absolutely trivial. Let her wear the dress, keep the flowers and bridesmaids dresses. POOF, you both get what you want. She gets her dress, you get your flowers and dresses.
2007-05-01 07:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-14 05:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by andresen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋