When I went out for drinks with my collegues last month, I ended up with having a romantic relationship with one of my collegue, but after about a month, he gradually stop calling me outside work, so I asked him what was wrong, and he told me that he felt something was wrong with us, that he felt things don't click in our relationship. I kind of felt the same way, but I figured that it was because we only have dated for about a month. We decided to stop seeing each other outside work, but I still like him. Should I overcome him or can I still like him?
2007-04-30 16:44:48 · 14 answers · asked by twinkle75 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it really depends on how much you like the guy and what his feelings are towards you. If he's saying the relationship wasn't 'clicking', he obviously doesn't have the same feelings for you as you do him. There would be nothing wrong with liking him as long as it was nothing more than a crush, but my advice would be to try to move on. There are other fish in the sea. If he doesn't want to make anything of it, then he most likely won't be changing his mind anytime soon.
PS: I see nothing wrong with "office romance", as long as there are no rules against it and both keep it professional while in the workplace.
2007-04-30 16:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can like him all you want hun, but if he isn't going to like you back, then what's the point? In all reality, if he told you that he didn't like you anymore, he probably isn't going to anytime soon either.
I don't think that there is anything wrong with dating someone you work with. I know some people who actually met at my workplace, and have been going strong for almost 2 years now. It CAN work, but in your situation, I don't think it will. At least not with this guy.
Make it fun, and test him. Tell him about a hook up with a random guy, or flirt with another co-worker, little things like that will grab his attention. And if he gets jealous, then maybe he still has feelings for you, and would be willing to give it another go.
Good luck!
♥B
2007-04-30 16:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Brandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Besides the fact that you work together. He has made it clear that he doesn't want to date you. You wouldn't like to be stalked by one of your co-workers, why would he? I know it is hard to meet people when you are busy, but work is not the place to find suiters. Join some clubs. Play slowpitch. This way you can meet some one who has interests that are the same as yours, besides a job.
2007-04-30 16:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Crazy_Fool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be not undemanding, yet well worth it. My boyfriend and that i met at artwork. he's the perfect boyfriend i have ever had, and we in simple terms moved in at the same time. If we do not have given it achieveable, shall we've ignored out on something extremely large. so some distance operating at the same time hasn't been a difficulty. we are pleasant to at least one yet another at artwork, yet also kinda attempt to do our own element after we are there. We verify we spend sufficient time with one yet another outdoors of work that we are no longer too worried with conversing to at least one yet another plenty even as we are there. This looks to artwork for us. yet another element is that both human beings might want to be protect interior the courting and under no circumstances get jealous if a coworker is conversing to/ being pleasant with your boyfriend/female friend.
2016-11-23 19:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard to date someone you work with. I started going out with my boyfriend while we were coworkers and he ended up leaving his job (for many other reasons besides our relationship). You should really talk to him to see if he's interested in getting back into a relationship with you. If he's not, then it's not worth the trouble.
2007-04-30 16:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can like him if you want to but what's the point? He said no seeing each other outside of work and he doesn't sound like he likes you that way. You are only hurting yourself, move on.
2007-04-30 16:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like him then you do but dont act on it concidering he is done with you. thats a rule of the workplace, dont get involved with anyone from work, it never works out(only in certain cases,Like mine!!) usually it doesnt workout and someone always gets hurt. next you will be seeing pictures of his new girlfriend and you will be so jealous, so i say you move on right now and forget about him. it isnt worth it, he is just a player and will hurt you in the end. he already said it wasnt goin good. he isnt interested anymore. move on and forget about him. goodl uck.
2007-04-30 16:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep business and personal seperate. It could be a disaster in the making.
2007-04-30 16:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships at work never go hand in hand sounds like hes not that into u and u need to let it go
2007-04-30 16:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by kibebrau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still like him but dont wait for him to change his mind move on find some one who thinks you are great longer then a month good luck!!!
2007-04-30 16:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by prettygirl_80650 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋