is it goin to b easy if someone has a kid when they r 14 about to b 15 years old?

Answer 1

Sex has a price tag and it's a huge responsiblity to be sexualy active. Sorry you learned this the hard way. Get in touch with Birth Right for some help, don't go to Planned Parenthood.

Answer 2

Are you possibly the father of this baby about to come into this world? I had a look at your other questions. Being a parent is a lifetime job. Nothing is more important. It certainly is not a job for a 14 or 15 year old boy and girl.
You and your friend need to tell your parents and go get help. Do not think this will just go away if you ignor it . That baby is coming your way sooner than you think. Do not do anything foolish, by this I mean an abortion, which is murder, or throwing it away after its born. Which could land you in prison for a long time, and which is murder also. Please do not try to run away from home horrible things could happen to you and you don't have a snowballs chance in Africa of getting a job to take care of yourself. There are many services that will help you. You certainly are not the first kids to have this problem. I t has been happening since the beginning of time. I know this is the hardest thing you will have to ever do at your age, and no matter how much you think your parents will kill you. They will get over it. If you are too afraid to tell them in person call them on the phone, and just blurt it out. Or go to a community services place or hospital and explain that you need help.
You have to get help now. One of you needs medical treatment right away. Maybe one or both of your families will be willing to help you raise the baby until you are old enough.
Or maybe it would be for the best to adopt the baby into a very good home . Go to your parents and get some help.
As Soon as possible. God Bless You. It will be okay ..

Answer 3

I had my first child when I was 15 and another when I was 16. I love my children with everything I've got but , Imissed out on sooooo much. As soon as I had my daughter I got a sitter and a job. I did the right thing by supporting them . I have to tell you though, at such a young age one is not ready to have a child. I was kicked out and forced to live on my own. I found a job as a nanny. I worked in exchange for room and board. It was the worst job I ever had. The people were horrible. They wanted me to work all hours every day. I never got a day off. I never got a day to spend with my children. I always had to work. I had no choice but to deal with them. I had too so I could feed my children. I am now 28 years old and when people find out I had my children so young they treat me different. No one should have a child at such a young age. If I met a teenager that was having a baby I would suggest adoption. There are so many parents out there that can't have children that can provide a great home. I can help one find a home if needed. Also most teenagers that have kids have them because they don't feel loved. If thats the case, the lack of love should be delt with first.

Answer 4

I don't know why everyone believes they know better than GOD. If a 14 or 15 year old conceived a child they will have a child and life is never easy ever. There is the good and bad of every situation make the best of this. I know if 1 of my children had a child at 14 or 15 I would have been accepting and understanding with no regard for how others interpret. Children are always a blessing with mixed bag of events.

I think physically your body will rebound quickly after child birth. Your body is prepared for child birth or it would not be able to conceive. God bless you in this adventure.

Answer 5

No it is not easy. I got pregnant with twins at 15. It is hard, very hard. I had to grow up fast, you have to stop being a kid and be an adult, and at 15 who is ready to be an adult. You don't get to do things with friends and go to other things like you want to. Money is tight and school is hard. Before my daughters reached a year old I was stressed ALL the time. But we have made it to 3 years old. Sure they have been a hard 3 years but the best 3 years of my life! It took a lot to were I am today but I am proud of myself. I did what I had to do.

Answer 6

Its never easy to have a kid no matter what the age. I think it would be even harder beign a teenager, coz its virtually impossible to find a well paying job, you constantly have people giving you horrible looks and judging you, which would be hard on someone whos self esteem hasnt fully developed yet, and you are just not quite mature enough to deal with it, If you have a good support network then it is doable, but dont kid yourself that it will be easy

Answer 7

No it definately won't be easy. Hopefully though that young women will find a way, many people have experienced this and have gotten through it. The young women has to have only one thing on her mind after she knows she's pregnant and that is her child. Her child will always be there and she has to be the best mom that she can possibly be no matter what condition.

Answer 8

Heavens no. Taking care of a baby is hard work. It takes a lot of time and responsibility, as well a patients, and love and money and... Get the picture. Baby at 14 = no more fun, it's not going to be about the child anymore it's going to be about the baby.

Answer 9

Its not easy having kids at any age the question that should be asked is is this person even ready to have a baby at such a young age.

Answer 10

I would not have given my babies to a 14 or 15 year old to bring up. Its like children having babies. Besides the fact that they are not in the financial position or emotional position to have the baby they have no life skills to pass on to their children.