okay went on a great date and had fun with a guy and I know he had a good time too but why did he not call? he's only writing few emails and short ones. WHat does this mean?Should a girl call a guy?
2007-04-30 15:54:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He had a good time but not that good of a time. It sounds like he's not willing to pursue a relationship with you at this point. A guy who really likes a girl will call, even if he waits a couple of days in order not to seem to desperate. He may want to keep you on the line (via emails) in case he wants to have a fallback girl, and if you're OK with that, then you can wait around for him to ask you out again. Otherwise, chalk it up to a learning experience and move on.
2007-04-30 15:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, just as a guy would know if you were having fun during your date, you would, as well, know if he was having a great time.
Honestly, its either the guy doesn't like you or he's just insecure. If his previous experiences with girls were all but good then he might be insecure and seriously considering the fact that you may not like him.
Other than that he might simply be busy with work. Assess the situation. Is he carreer oriented? Is he a workaholic? Is he shy?
On the other hand, i'd suggest you email him, and ask him the questions that so often plague your mind. It won't hurt to be frank, honestly. :)
2007-04-30 16:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by ted15washburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he had a good time? If you weren't having a good time but the other person seemed to be enjoying themselves would you really burst their bubble and be like "Dude, you're a sucky date." No. He could have been being polite and now is being polite.
But then again, guys who aren't interested in a girl will usually not take the time to reply back to emails and such, and I can kind of relate to your problem only mine is text messaging and we haven't gone on a date yet. I think just ask him what's up, but don't sound needy or it will scare him off.
2007-04-30 16:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have said in an e-mail or at the end of an evening: "Had a wonderful time hope we can get together again sometime." Then you have said all that needs to be said about seeing each other in the future. You could call him but that just makes you look desperate if he wanted to see you again he would call. Bummer that he hasn't but I would move on it's really rotten when a guy leads you on like that but you deserve attention if he is not the one willing to lavish you with his time then he isn't the one for you. Move on sweet lady ... times a wasting.
2007-04-30 16:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels intimidated and shy. You shouldn't call him, not yet. Instead, approach him and ask how he is. If he's feeling down according to his friends, bring him some cookies. Or ofcourse, he could be waiting for you to make a move. Some boys actually want girls to make a move. Wait a week, then call him, and say something along the lines of, ' I had a great time last week. I think you did too. Do you want to do it again this week?' Good luck.
2007-04-30 15:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by The Katcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's more than likely, not that interested. If he were, he would call. Lots of guys, I've heard someone say- tend to try girls out (on) like a coat, just to see if they like it. Don't waste your life waiting by the phone for him. Get on with your life and enjoy it!! Do things that make you happy. Is waiting by the phone, thinking (obsessing) about this guy making you happy?!! Go out and live -and- you will eventually find the right guy- or he will find you. This is very inconsiderate how this guy is treating you. What good does it do to get involved with someone who really is not interested in you. In that case, it wouldn't work anyway.
2007-04-30 16:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy may not call a girl for many reasons, maybe he's just really busy that would explain the short e-mails. If you want to call him, then call him. I call guys all the time.
2007-04-30 16:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes call him. I don't know about him but I'm a terrible procrastinator. I'll be wondering stupid stuff like, is this a good time to call her? Maybe she's in the shower? Maybe she's having dinner, I wouldn't want to call if she's eating. Maybe she's too busy to talk??? Maybe I'm too retarded to carry on an intelligent coherent conversation containing more than one syllable words.
2007-04-30 15:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely no, I regularly like the female to call me even as she needs to & is able to, that would not recommend i'm no longer into her (some distance from it), that's only for me I like it that way as i love her to call me even as she's loose, even as she's waiting to and so on... then i'm no longer hectic her with what she's doing and so on... which i continually experience if I call her then it is going to likely be one among them conversations the position it feels like you've disturbed them. Which i be conscious of can be a incorrect element to do, notwithstanding that's how i'm, in certain circumstances i have had it the position they have said they felt dissapointed & needed I called them more advantageous regularly, yet then they do no longer make an situation of it afterwards, as they have instructed me & i be conscious of, notwithstanding I do textual content plenty to work out how they are and so on... even as that's someone I care about, that is my way of exclaiming "look i love you" & I continually instruct my emotions, although I even ought to verify my emotions are actual too, in certain circumstances i'm somewhat sluggish in this yet i have the want to substantiate what i believe on the time is authentic, which even if that is, it is going to nevertheless be there regardless of time down the line. desire this helped somewhat.
2016-11-23 19:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by andie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never find out exactly why he's not calling you but he has his reasons. Could be anything from he got cold feet to he hates the phone to he wants to slow down. Who knows? Don't overanalyze - just accept things as they are. Don't call him. If he wants you he'll call you. You may just have to accept the possibility that it is going nowhere. THe worst thing to do that will wreck your chances is to do his job for him which is to pursue.
2007-04-30 16:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by chewtheredpill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋