2007-04-30 15:38:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BOTH. Sometimes I may be the definate cause of a problem. sometimes it is the girlfriend's fault and she blames it on me. I think she's right about that, but she doesn't know why. If theres a problem, I probably inadvertantly caused it anyway. I'm ALMOST always the problem, but I still don't like getting blamed ALL the time. Men give up on arguements easier in my experiences, mostly cuz they don't want their gf/wife to stop having sex cuz they are mad. Men let women win so men are always the ones being blamed in the end. not to hurt anyone's feelings, but that's how I see it...
2007-04-30 15:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not just the men that are to blame. There are two in a relationship. Its just men that often put their foot in their mouth. Its an old stereotype that men are just convenient scapegoats and its one that has not faded. But at the same time, guys dont do a lot to try and get rid of it. Ive heard guys use the comeback, "Hey guys are always to blame so just blame me. You always do" Thats lame. They are not helping themselves out.
2007-04-30 15:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No to both questions.
Relationship involves 2 people hopefully. It is 50/50 both of you.
I don't find men too convenient of a scapegoats. They tend to blame you back.
2007-04-30 15:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of that's a guy/female concern. i think of maximum individuals do no longer want to settle for whilst they're incorrect. which would be my protection if i did no longer want to work out the sunshine, yet on the turn element, i think of it is actual for the adult men in my existence too. Does it ever experience like it is in straightforward terms a means conflict? dealing with some frustration myself precise now. My boyfriend won't admit or replace any of his habit in the direction of me ( i think I could desire to declare ex-boyfriend). no longer even the slightest little element. So I had to diminish my losses. i think you shoud learn the placement and attempt to be honest. in case you have performed something incorrect, positioned your head on the reducing block and say you're sorry. If no longer, then no longer. (better than probable, you have been a factor of it. It takes 2 to tango. besides, be introspective, be honest). If she nonetheless blames you for each thing, tell her "it takes 2 to tango". she will make her very own possibilities. She's an grownup basically such as you're. She does not could desire to apply your strikes as a justification. If it is nonetheless a difficulty, you may wanna decrease your losses too.
2016-10-14 05:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. This is an example of the destructive nature of gender roles. Men are jealous, women are clingy, men cheat, women are gold-diggers, etc. etc.
If we could look past stereotypes then we could have much healthier and functional relationships.
2007-04-30 15:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are kidding this is a ? it takes 2 baby each person contributes to problems and solutions and sometimes it is an outside influence causing most of the drama
2007-04-30 15:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each party blames the other.
2007-04-30 15:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both.
2007-04-30 15:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether or not we are actually guilty of something or not.
2007-04-30 15:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by Oklahoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women think so and we all know they are always right just ask them
2007-04-30 15:42:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋