im bigheaded... Im working in the musicindustry and my new guy i started dating said that im bigheaded... ok , obviously im very ambitous, but i hab very bad circumstanses with my ex guys and my father died a month a go... I love people and in my opinion i am varr caring person. But now he says im just big headed and wants to end it and just be my friends and producer.... I just need some loving... help?
2007-04-30 14:35:34 · 10 answers · asked by Kittykat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In the past guys were just interested in body and looks... and now i feel scared of being myself.
2007-04-30 14:37:41 · update #1
be yourself dont try to be something youre not it just makes life worse for you. im sorry about your dad ive been there 3 years ago i know its hard. also if your guy wants to end it just let him go i guess because you dont want to hold on to something that doesnt want you just as bad. you deserve so much better. dont worry sweetie hes out there and you will find him.
2007-04-30 14:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, what some people call big headed, others call confident and ambitious. Don't apologize for yourself! You're fabulous! And if this guy can't see that, that's his loss. And it's worse that he can't be there for you when you need him the most. Truth be known, it sounds like this guy's a little full of himself as well. Just find a nice, sweet, caring guy. And to be pretty and nice, so few of us out there. lol But trust me, there's someone out there waiting for a guy like that to screw up so he can be with you. Just be patient. It'll happen. But never, ever, stop being yourself. That's what will make a true man fall in love with you. Good luck!!!
2007-04-30 21:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably are a little big headed. Try examining yourself. In the Bible it says "He who is first shall be last and he who is last shall be first." Basically stay as humble as possible, thats what I try to do. Instead of making yourself seem great let others tell you how great you are, to me it means nothing coming from yourself. Because when you make yourself low and humble and modest others will respect you more as a person. I'm an actor, singer, comedian all that at school. I'm going to L.A for a new talent showcase for all these agenices, man I could brag for days but it means nothing. If someone says "Are you any good at singing" I'm say something like "I'm alright" or "I really like to sing". As entertainers, our jobs are to entertain not brag about how good we are at it. But you better believe, whenever someone says let me hear you sing I make SURE they'll remember my name! God Bless.
2007-04-30 21:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say you should sit back and evaluate yourself. Do you think that you are that kind of chick that a dude would wanna be with or take serious? Because it sounds to me like guys only want one thing from you and you are giving it up and they are done.
Again, all I am saying is to take some time for you and evaluate yourself. And if you feel like it is not you then maybe you just like the assholes. :)
2007-04-30 21:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by pinky5159 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to understand the feelings of the people around you. Then you will get the loving you need.
2007-04-30 21:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by Buddy Hodor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER EVER BE AFRAID TO BE YOUR SELF
if people cant love you the way you are then they are not your friends and they do not deserve you..
Love your self the way you are and you will meet someone you really love and loves you the way you are
2007-04-30 21:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by *~*Volleyball player*~* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what, I'm big headed it holds all the brain. keep your chin up keep smiling.
2007-04-30 21:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need some loving? I got some loving for ya =)
2007-04-30 21:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by hawk_boy2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what exactly is your question?
If you're asking if you're bigheaded...I have no idea.
2007-04-30 21:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jen due December 09 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new guy to date and stop analyzing everything.
2007-04-30 21:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋