I cant stop thinking about my ex-girlfriend, what should i do?

Question

Help me, i miss her so much

Answer 1

yea u should get a life. how long have u been broken up? if its been for at least 2mths, u need to get over her if she's not trying to get back with u. go out with ur buddies and club and have fun. live the singlelife for a while and learn about u, then try another relationship.

Answer 2

I would either:

1) Call her and ask her how she is doing. Tell her how you feel and that yoiu atleast want to be on good speaking terms with her.

2) Write her a letter

3) Email or text message her.

You may be surprised that she thinks the say way of you. She may miss you alot and it may not seem that way because it is easier to see our pain because it hurts so much .. rather than seeing the pain of others.

Also, keep yourself busy by working out, praying on it, and meeting new friends and having fun. I would NOT recommend getting into a new relationship because you know you are not over her and that you are hurting. YOU DESERVE closure and to be happy. I need to take my own advice.


God Bless you and I hope this helps.

Answer 3

It depends how broke up with how. If you did try to get her back. If she did dont even try any thing. I know it is hard at frist but aftier a while you laught about her and thought all bull **** but you will get over what ever is time. I am telling you it only takes time. I say just keep busy with life. If your in school do a lot of school work even if it is extra created. Or if you just work do a lot of work. Try to get out as much as possiable and meet new people. Go out with lots of friends suround your self with lots of friends the best ones you got how are always there for you.

Answer 4

If it's truly over(and only you know that answer) then try and keep busy by going out with friends and not leaving yourself anytime to mope over her. As a matter of fact be sure to be in social situations where you may meet the next great gf of your life. Being in the company of other women will help the most I have learned from experience.

Answer 5

Try to keep yourself occupied. Dont focus on avoiding her because you end up obsessing about that too. Do things to divert your attention to something else. Go out with your friends. Be on the lookout for other girls and try to find another girl that you like. And by all means, don't drive yourself crazy trying to get her back. If she loves you she'll be with you. If she doesn't than maybe she wasn't good enough for you. Don't lose your head!

Answer 6

I'm guessing she dumped you, and probably know you can't ever be with her again. I think you should probably just try to think of something positive that came out of you two not being together. Or maybe you could try again, but try to be a different person than the one she dumped. (Figuratively, not literally).
P.S. Jealousy never works so don't even think about it.

Answer 7

Stay busy.
Avoid anything that reminds you of her.
And date as many OTHER women as possible, and see if after a dozen women, your woman still looks so great.

Other than that, suffer, and wait, like I do. Time is the great healer.

Answer 8

Find whatever in your life is your main interest and stick to it. You'll still think about her now & then, but keep your life busy w/work, exercise, hobbies, whatever. JUST KEEP BUSY! Before long, you'll be in a routine, and you'll realize that one day you haven't been thinking about her as much. Keep friends near by too. It WILL get better: trust me, I know.

Answer 9

Nothing sadly your screwed, we've all been there. Just stay busy, keep active, lift a lot, go running, paintball, what ever makes you happy. Try to find another girl and you'll get better. Just forget about her.

Answer 10

I don't know your situation, so I don't really have any good advice, but i'll try.

Go out and have some fun, flirt and try to avoid thinking of her..or

Give her a call and talk things through

Best of luck.