I'm living in a really great apartment with a cool roommate. My boyfriend is searching for a place to live and I think after a year of dating we're ready to move in together. I don't want to leave my apartment and neither does my roommate. However, if I leave and find a place with my bf, then my roommate will have to leave the apartment as he most likely wouldn't be able to pay rent on a 2bd apartment. What should I do to not risk losing out on a great apartment?
2007-04-30 12:12:26 · 11 answers · asked by DG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are u a guy?
2007-04-30 12:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sit down with your roommate and find out if they are okay with your bf moving in. That way each of you could pay a smaller portion of the rent. That way the three of you could each have a little extra money in your pockets also. If they are not cool with that then do the polite thing is to wait until the lease expires and then let them find an apartment on their own if they really want their own place.
2007-04-30 12:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that your boyfriend should at least ask him for SOME alone time with you.. even if its not over night.. if theyre friends, i know guys.. he could just be like "hey man, i wanna spend some time with my girl tonight, you think you could give us some time?" be a little perverted when he asks him.. essentially the roomate would be "c0ck blocking" if he didnt go.. which would make him such a douche bag... i know you said you guys arent having sex... but whether you are or not, as a couple youre entitled to have alone time. If all fails, may i suggest you boycott your boyfriends place. dont go unless the roomate isnt there. and when the roomate shows up, leave promptly. someone will get the point, whether its your bf or the roomate....
2016-05-17 13:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You moved into the place with your roomate. It is not up to him to uproot himself due to your new circumstances and needs. Your roomate has the first option as to what HE wants to do. Explain your circumstances and let him decide. Possibly you can all co-habitate?
2007-04-30 12:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can help your boyfriend find an apartment close by.
2007-04-30 12:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by Chip 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have your bf share your room...that way you wouldnt have to put anyone out or make anyone feel uncomfortable...it might take some getting used to...but in the long run it will be fun
2007-04-30 12:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that it is right to do that u can or all 3 of y'all can live at one place
2007-04-30 12:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by ravenfoster1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can leave and let roommate with boyfriend together
2007-04-30 12:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if its time for you & your boyfriend to live together, talk to your roommate, they'll understand...
2007-04-30 12:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by resolucion 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
have your bf move in, but make him pay rent.
2007-04-30 12:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could do the "three's company" thing... it can work... if everyone is an adult...
2007-04-30 12:15:36 · answer #11 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋