I met a guy online and greatly love him. We plan to meet and see
where we go from there. We sometimes tell each other questions like " did
you fall for someone else?" or "how about all those boys/girls you know?We are
very interested in each other. The problem is , that sometimes he
disappears for days offline. I send him messages and he doesn't answer
and then he goes back online and then we are very in love again. I
don't want to cheat on him(if it would be even cheating). My conscience is
always telling me to not talk to other people. The other day, I
went on his highfive page and discovered he added another girl. I don't
know if there is anything between them or they ar just friends (i to
have friends that are boys on highfive). , would it be a sin to check
out this girl's profile just to see if he speaks to her and other girls
like the way he speaks to me? I'm not at all a stalker . I just want to
know who that person really is so I don't up being hurt
2007-04-30 08:22:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
First of all people might not always say truth.Have u ever seen this guy.Before i was saved i lie a lot.Few even know my real name.I once saw on tv how a girl chatted with someone and when they met he was into his middle ages.So its a bit hard to trust someone on internet.Its actually your decision and u need wisdom from GOD so pray for it.
Ask JESUS help and pray to him.and JESUS loves u more than anyone else.Is your friend so you can always ask him.He knows more about him than u might so better ask JESUS.
read John 3:16 .GOD sent his son JESUS so when we believe in JESUS we have eternal life.JESUS lived a sinless life and gave up his life as a sacrifice so we can be sin free. Ask JESUS to come into your heart and forgive ur sins and
cleanse ur past with his blood.
With a simple prayer like above u can be saved.JESUS loves u and wants u to be saved.
2007-05-01 06:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by Emmanuel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there is no such thing as sin, since god doesn't exist. There's wrong, but this isn't one of those cases.
Next, you've never even met the guy. You cannot, therefore, love him, and he cannot love you. Also, it is normal for people to be offline sometimes. He probably has other things he needs to do, like go to school, work, hang out with real-life friends and family, and do normal things.
It is not cheating because you guys are not in a relationship. And having someone else on his page does not mean that he's cheating, or lost interest in you... it just means that he likes to talk with that person once in a while and you're being way too jealous.
It is not sinful to check her profile, but it is stalker-ish. The person you need to know is not the other girl but they guy himself. You have no way of knowing how old he is, if he is a criminal or not, where he is, how much he knows about you, any of that. It's time to cut contact with him, no matter how much that may hurt. Because it's going to hurt a lot more than "cheating" if you get kidnapped or something.
2007-04-30 08:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by Rat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a good question, because I've been where you are. First of all no it would not necessarily be a sin to look on his or anyone else's page, cause that's what it is there for, to look. As for cheating there is no way (i don't think) that you would be cheating on this guy, cause it's just an Internet thing, it is a fantasy, until u meet him and get to know the real him and not the edited version. Have u met him? If so this is a relationship and you need to share with him your concerns if he can not respect them, than he may not be the one for you. If you want to get more friends other than him than do so, but be honest even if he isn't at lease he will know it is okay for him to be honest with you. I hope this helps.
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2007-04-30 08:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by ~sunflower 26~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if what you are doing is a sin but it's definitely not healthy. You shouldn't be putting so much emotion energy into an online relationship, especially since you haven't even met the guy in person. I had an online relationship that lasted 2 months before I met the guy--who I had known as a family friend 13+years before (so I didn't really "know" him") Things were so different when I finally got to see him in person even though we were saying we were very in love with each other through our online web-cam conversations. So I warn you now to be cautious about obsessing over this guy and the women he wants to contact---you are treading dangerous waters.
2007-04-30 08:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sierra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"love" is when u know the person very well -faults and everything.if u haven't even met him i think u should be HIGHLY sceptical .....it could be a TOTAL scam!
u shouldn't have gone this far without meeting up.....meeting up and seeing whether his internet personality is the true one should've been done BEFORE leaving the "friendship" stage,and even that would take a considerable time because during dates one tends to show only 1 side of oneself.
u should cool off now and if u want to have anything to do with him,MEET UP!
guys and girls cheat on eachother all the time and do all sorts of stuff even when they're in a personal relationship where they meet up regularly..so in a world like that,how can u trust a person who u have met on the net?
2007-04-30 08:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. What are you 12??? Hate to say it but it sounds like you are very naive. How can you love and be faithful to somebody you've never even met? For all you know this guy could be lying through his teeth. You owe this person nothing. If you want to avoid being hurt, I suggest you actually hang out with somebody and really get to know them in person before you start growing any kind of feelings for them. And as far as checking out this other girls page. Go for it, she's the one putting her bussiness out there.
2007-04-30 08:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Haywood Jablomee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you love this person? You don't even know him or if it is a him. You don't know for sure how old he is or what he looks like. Sounds like you need to get out more and find someone who really cares. You are headed down the wrong path with this on line dating. For example you see my name, you think I am a Preacher's Wife, but do you know that for sure. Do you know for sure that I am and woman and not a man. You see you don't know unless you know for a fact. Think about it.
2007-04-30 08:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by PREACHER'S WIFE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check what the guy writes to the other girls. if you think theres something going on then just ask the guy. sometimes online relationships are hard and not honest. if you two are deeply in love then spend some time together, meet up! ... but be safe! and no, i do not think checking the other girls' profile is a sin
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2007-04-30 08:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2017-01-09 04:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by dettman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not be a sin for you to check out this other girl's profile.
It would be very smart of you, however, to forget about him. It's fairly obvious that he's secretive as he hasn't given you any good reason why he's gone for days.
either
He's married
He's got several girlfriends
He's a stalker himself
He's a con artist.
or all 4
break it off now. It's not worth your time and emotion.
blessings :)
2007-04-30 08:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋