i know there is nothig except attraction in our relationship always i think not to go physical with her but whenever i see her i dont know what happens to me what should i do? help me
2007-04-30 06:52:40 · 27 answers · asked by tom c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
AGE HAS NO BAR IN LOVE.
2007-05-01 18:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all is the girl over 18 years?and if she is below 18 years then you must leave her but if she is 18 or over 18 then it's ok as she's adult.
The second thing:Age difference is not a problem as long as the girl is over 18 years.you said that there's only attraction in your relationship right??So you don't love her. what i'll advise you is not to do any fisical thing with her if you don't love her. It's better to do fisical things when a boy and a girl is completely in love. Don't play with her body just because you feel attraction for her.
what if she becomes pregnant?? what will happen to her honour and dignity?? Please if you love her then marry her and then make love with her but if you don't love her then maybe apart kissing her don't do anythig else.You can only kiss her but don't make sex with her at any cost. Keep her dignity.
Bye from Bella
2007-04-30 16:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Felicità 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the age difference by number (i.e 24-14 which would make you a pervert or 34-24 which i think would be ok).. As long as she not a minor and she loves and accept you for your age (it's just a number), you shouldn't break up with her.Are you willing to let go of someone that makes you feel special all because of numbers? If she really cares about you, let go of the number and make her happy.. Don't make the mistake of letting go of something and then regretting it for the rest of your life.
If she mature and suits you in every way except for age, then give it a shot . If you think she's immature then let her go..
But decide in your own time.. Think of how you feel and who she is, do they add up..
Good luck!
2007-04-30 14:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by liza246 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but you not said... how old are you... I suppose she is under age... well.. is that is true what I think.. I think is better is you dump her.. as soon you can.. because if someone discover you secret.. because I think you not tell anyone about this... either you shadow... and if you not have sex with her yet... you maybe are on time to finish this.. without be in trouble.... you go to have a real nightmares in you hands... also.. if she feel betrayed she might put you in trouble for just dump her... also... if you are 43 and she is 33 why not...? age is only a number.. is not good to play with a woman if you not want nothing serious... but is she not is a minor.. I think you can talk to her and know what she want.. and knowing what you want.. can work...
man ... good luck
2007-04-30 14:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by jorge c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on if it's like ------ 10 and 20 --- or 18 and 28
if it's legal and you really love her - what's the problem
my step-mom is 11 years younger than my dad
it was kinda like havin a big sis - but that probably doesn't help
legal and love - go ahead
not legal and not love - end it
good luck!!! otherwise there isn't a problem- 10 years not that much compared to other people!!!!
2007-04-30 14:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she is of age go for it.If you two are single your not hurting no one.My man is 8 years younger than me.Attraction is a wonderful thing when done right.Unless your afraid someone is going to get hurt.Does she know its only physical?Be honest with her and go from there.Don't stand to close if she doesn't know.
2007-04-30 14:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by cindyr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first it depends on how old you are. Like if you are 16 or 26, definitely break it off.
If you are 36, that should be okay as long as you are both on the same page.
2007-04-30 14:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by SamCam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are. My man is about 10 years older than I am and we have been together for nine years(this Thursday!). We met when I was 20 and he was just about 30.
2007-04-30 13:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by MamiZorro2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have emotional feelings for her stick with her get to know her on a emotional side not just a physical side.. In love age doesn't matter it's if you love the person and they love you back.
2007-04-30 13:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by evolutiondamngood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never be to old for love. If she is over the legal limit of age and she is willing to be with you then that means she cares and she doesn't mind the age difference.
2007-04-30 13:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by suzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you're 25 and she's 15 or if you're 35 and she's 20! (Remember, you can be put in jail if she's under 18!)
2007-04-30 13:56:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋