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2007-04-30 06:34:02 · 39 answers · asked by anesha w 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

39 answers

Yes, it's wrong to have two boyfriends (which is what I think you're asking). Choose one and stick with them.

2007-04-30 06:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 2 0

It seems like many of the answers you've received have been nasty and insulting. Let me give you a polite response. There is no one on this planet who can tell you what to do. In life, you have choices to make that ultimately become your actions. While I feel that having one boyfriend is sufficient, I am not going to insult you or belittle you for having two boyfriends. I would take some precautions as far as if you are sexually involved with these two or anyone else. ALWAYS use protection!

2007-04-30 06:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

NO, not if both are aware of what's going on and are ok with it. Most of us feel that you can't split yourself between two people and should commit to one, but if your triangle works. DOn't let anyone judge you for the choices you make. Go for it, and believe me there are people out there that have been hurt enough they accept this as the only way to have a healthy relationship. You must protect you and your partners and all get tested. Also if there are any other woman involved get them tested to. Now with that said one day it will come to a head and one of them will want all of you attention unless never favor one over the other, or you will become sick of going inbetween, unless they live out of town. Good Luck and it can be done successfully just don't expect others to accept or relate.

2007-04-30 07:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by cutie_pie28 2 · 0 0

If you're asking this question, then you probably already know the answer. And it's yes, it is wrong to be dating two people at the same time. It's not fair to them and it's really not fair to you. You're putting yourself in a potentially awekward position. If one finds out about the other then you could lose both of them and it could cause a really ugly scene. I would step back and really look at which one makes you the happiest and go with him. Save yourself the trouble and potential heartache of staying with two. Good luck!

2007-04-30 06:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by Vanna Chick 2 · 0 0

It would be nice if it was something that should be done with no problem. But it's not!
It's not good and it is wrong...
You don't want anyone dating you and someone else!!!?
I mean for him to come see you for like 2 hours and then leave to go spend time with the other one. It's not cool and there's feelings involved that tend to hurt when something like this happenes.
Just think about what you don't like getting done to you don't do to others.

2007-04-30 06:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5 · 0 0

DO they both know? I mean when we say "wrong" there is more than one "notion" of wrong.... if you were "playing" them both without each of them knowing about the other one, well then that would be WRONG. And here is a nother "notion"of wrong, it's not necessarily "wrong" it just may be UNWISE ~ moreover unclean... I mean it may seem "jiving" at the time... but is that what YOU really want? I mean do you believe in CLEAN LOVE, one man who was made just for you, thru all time and space across the universe, from life to life...consider a motion of higher love.

2007-04-30 06:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

As long as you're just dating then, IMHO it's not wrong. What's wrong is when you lie to them, and tell them that they're the only one you're seeing. If they ask, be honest! They might try harder, or they may even date other women. Dating is all about learning about the other person. There isn't a "commitment" until you're either engaged, or actually married. Once again, IMHO!

2007-04-30 06:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Candice B 6 · 0 0

Yes it's very wrong, pick one before they both find out that you are messing around and instead of having 2 you are going to have 0 (Zero)

2007-04-30 06:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by mysteryousmtz 6 · 0 0

Yes, it is. A boyfriend is someone you should share your feelings with EXCLUSiVELY, not give small pieces of it out to two people. Pick one and stick with it. <3

2007-04-30 06:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by The Prep 4 · 1 0

whats wrong is that your asking this question. does it feel right to have two boyfriends?

2007-04-30 06:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by helpfull2u 3 · 0 0

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