Ive never been turned down in my life and i fell for a guy whos not all that lookswise. When i asked him out he laughed at me lol, its funny even thinkin about it. Good lookin guys never turn me down let alone this type. What do you think is going on here? The piece of crap made me think he was interested then when i told him i liked him he basically turned me down.
2007-04-30 06:33:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah? And how many guys have you blown off in your life?
Karma, my dear, it's all karma. The way you pose your question just kinda says it all. You think that being asked out is an entitelment, don't you? You think that because you can disparage this guy for his looks, that he owes you some sort of debt of gratitude because you deign to say that you're interested.
I got news for you, Sugar. He owes you squat.
You post this question about someone "whos not all that lookswise" and whom you call a "piece of crap" and you think that anyone's gonna get on here and tell you, "Oh, you're so good-looking, you're much too good for him, how could he treat you this way?"
Get a grip. Number one, looks aren't everything. And let me clue you into a little something about the male psyche. We're not really attracted, physically, to someone we have no respect for.
My guess is that if he was interested at first, you treated him like you were doing him some kind of favor in reciprocating. And now he thinks you're a joke.
You know what? Why don't you go off and try to say just one truthful, honest thing to one person this week? That shouldn't be too much of a strain. Then maybe two things next week. Then the week after, add to those truthful things just one single comment that doesn't have an agenda. Eventually, you can work your way up to saying something, just once a week, that is genuinely thoughtful and nice, and for which you expect nothing in return.
Maybe after a couple of years of this, you will develop at least the illusion of a personality. And then guys who may not be all that lookswise but have decency, and brains, and humor, may be a little more inclined, when they turn you down, to be at least not outwardly derisive about it. Who knows, if you keep at it, in ten years you may even be ready to date a human being.
2007-04-30 06:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's one of two things, either he really liked you and didn't think you were serious so he stopped you before he could get hurt, OR, he's a jackass and he's getting an ego trip turning down a hot girl. If he laughed at you, it sounds like the second, so you're better off without him anyway.
2007-04-30 13:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by shere143 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this happens all the time im sure-maybe he likes boys. if your so good looking why settle 4 anything less than a jock or prep. Hes a freaking looser anyways so why even stress!!!!
2007-04-30 13:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Shallow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He thinks that your setting him up so he turned u down before u could hurt him.
2007-04-30 13:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Dallas 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He probably thought "Yel, this gal is asking me out.
!!!! She is trickin me. I'm not falling for that" Just hang in there. Keep an eye on him. He may see you are sincere and take you up on it sometime.
2007-04-30 13:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were finally knocked down a peg or two. I'm afraid you aren't all that you think you are, honey. It's possible that he was trying to make that point. Or maybe he was interested upon first meeting your, but as he got to know you he realized how shallow and conceited you seem and thought better for it.
2007-04-30 13:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
He likes you. He probably thinks you're to much for him. Give the guy another chance. this time show him how serious you are!
2007-04-30 13:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by Stephen G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋