Was talking about this with some friends today. Say you mess around with someone whom you KNOW is taken - they make no bones about it. And then as time goes by feelings develop and y'all want to have a relationship with each other.
Do you think you can trust this person to not cheat on you? Personally I don't think you can.
2007-04-30 06:26:35 · 28 answers · asked by China J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Heck no. That is crazy. That has trouble written all over it.
2007-04-30 06:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by blaw7162000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as they saying goes once a cheat always a cheat. It doesn't matter what that person says or does he/she will end up cheating again. It's just the way people are no matter what. Now you could go for along time without cheating on the other person but eventually your gonna cheat again.
Would you rather you know that they have cheated before and know there is a possibility that they will do it again or would you just rather go on with the relationship wondering has he/she ever cheated on me or someone else?
2007-04-30 13:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by innocent~1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on the person. Some people do change. I am one of them. Back in college and my early 20s, I cheated on boyfriends. I once had an affair with a married man. However, I have since changed. I would never even consider the thought now. In fact, an ex of mine (one of the once a cheater, always a cheater people) has tried to convince me to sleep with him. I won't do it for two huge reasons. One, he's engaged. Two, I've just started seeing someone new. I could never bring myself to intentionally hurt someone like that again.
2007-04-30 13:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the people. Just because a person cheats once doesn't mean they will do it again.
But, I have seen men who've cheated on all their wife and ended up with the other person only to cheat on them down the road. Its like a cycle. If you had an on going thing while they stayed with this someone else that shows lack of integrity and they'll likely cheat on you someday.
2007-04-30 13:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by teana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater? No...few things in this world "always" occur. However it happens often enough to have caused that saying to become popular (if inaccurate).
Could I trust someone who was fooling around with me, on their partner? Absolutely not. I don't have the arrogance or vanity to believe I'd be able to keep that person faithful, if their previous partner couldn't.
Besides...who wants the bad karma from being party to a cheating relationship? Not me...by doing that, you say it's okay if you get cheated on (and it's not for me!)
2007-04-30 13:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I believe cheaters will simply always be cheaters. Believe me when I tell you this stuff...I know a few of them unreasonably! They are the scum feeding creatures of the earth honestly. They are selfish me me me people.They do not know how to be kind and considerate in a two way relationship with someone...period. They should not be people you associate with either. Birds of a feather?...well...you know! I won't ever say people won't or can't change really...it's just simply unlikely...that's all. I've personally been cheated on too many times to even remotely bother with known cheaters anyways. They will cripple a relationship forever. Need I say more?
2007-04-30 13:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So..both parties are cheaters? I think that if it is done once it probably will happen again. I must say that once someone is in love....they really shouldn't want to go outside the relationship. Commitment is hard and making a relationship work is for mature comitted people.Final answer......once a cheat......always a cheat.
2007-04-30 13:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by Corey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i firmly believe once a cheater always a cheater Unless something happens to the cheater that all of a sudden changes their mind (they get cheated on by someone they care about)
i really dont think you can trust someone who has cheated it's a thrill for some people the excitement of possibly getting caught or a feeling that they have just gotten even because you made them mad it's not fair by any means and i despise anyone who cheats
2007-04-30 13:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by soccer_star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Situations change over time. Who knows why this person is looking outside of the other relationship for "comfort". I don't think that you can apply the same rules to all relationships...sorry, I've been taught that statements that include the words ALWAYS or NEVER usually do not hold true.
2007-04-30 13:30:07 · answer #9 · answered by mzadamz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once CHEATED on a girl I was dating and I was WRONG to do such. I can honestly say that I will NEVER do that to a woman again...
I think it has to do with the person really REALIZING that "cheating" is wrong, it takes a fundamental shift in a person's life. Sometimes you have to ask yourself "what brought me to teh point of cheating" ~ in other words "what was or is the cheating-action based on".... what other lifestyle choices/decisions.
2007-04-30 13:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't. Unfortunately, the saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is true. If they cheated on someone with you, then there is almost a 100% chance they will do the same to you. <3
2007-04-30 13:31:26 · answer #11 · answered by The Prep 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋