2007-04-30 06:12:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Congradulations on finding the right one.Its great when you fined it early. No more BS right.?Every one has there opinion but only your counts. If its true love it will prove to every one that it is ment to be. Just make sure it is what your heart wants. I married my husband when I was 18. We were together for 6 mths when he proposed. He is 6years older. We have been married for 12 years now. So it can happen. If its what you want dont let any one stop you. Good luck.
2007-04-30 06:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jenifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes they will think you are crazy. You are only 17 and probably not even out of high school. You need to get an education and some real life experience (and more dating experience) before you get married. I had a friend that got engaged also at 17 then married at 18; they ended up getting a divorce within a year and a half. Trust me, just wait. If you think he might be the one and he does propose, then take the ring as a promise ring and not an engagement ring....that way it will allow you to both say you will stay commited to each other, but not have that engagement over your heads while you are furthering/finishing your education and getting real life world experince.
2007-04-30 13:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by prodigy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think people will think your crazy... I would say that if he proposes you should seriously think about it. Your only 17 and there is so much more out there. I would say to listen to your heart. But realize that you and him have not been with each other on your own. Take some time and really get to know each other. Do not jump into anything.
2007-04-30 13:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I have been thinking I have found "the one "since I was your age. Now I know, you may love him, but love isn't the only way to know he is the right person. Possibilities are neither one of you know who you really are yet. To pick a "match" has a whole lot more to do than with love. Your love won't matter if he ends up being a bum once he is really grown up. Enjoy the moment, If he is "the one" he will still be in 5 years. Don't marry him now. By then you will know more about yourself and how to identify things in men you can and can't live with. You may be able to fall in love with a man, but living with his habits, outlook on life and ability to provide for your family will be very, very important to keeping a relationship together. Only time will tell..give it lots of time...he must be ambitious and an honorable man. You can't tell now,he is too young. People will think you are crazy because they have been there and know exactly what I am talking about. Don't brush aside the knowledge of those older than you are. It is better to save yourself the hurt by learning from them, than having to work through the pain. Tell him you can't think of a more wonderful thing he could ask, but you think if he is asking to love you forever, then it means he will still love you in a few years and he should again then, instead. It would mean more to you to know you lasted. PS. people marry for the things they like about a person and then divorce for the things they don't like.
2007-04-30 13:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Education is more important than anything, especially at 17. It is very stupid to marry before graduating college.
2007-04-30 13:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how long you have been together. My boyfriend and I got engaged when I was 17 and no one seemed to mind.
2007-04-30 13:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too (17) and i think i found the one too. But we are waiting, if you really do love him then you will wait. GOOD LUCK.
2007-04-30 13:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by Molly H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to get married. Don't even think about it until you've at least finished college.
2007-04-30 13:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by Stephen L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋