how many people belive in this statement??? Once a Cheater Always a Cheater...?

Question

for example you have a girl or guy that cheated on who ever they were with to be with you now you two are in a relationship and the other person is out of the picture do you still have it in the back of your mind that they might be cheating on you like they did the other person, and if so what do you do about this how do you handle the situation at hand???

Answer 1

Not true...there is a cycle of sorts, but it's about breaking the cycle. Don't let the same situation happen. Your girl seems to be a good person so you shouldn't think she's cheating. I'm sure you cheated on someone else with her as well, so there is a possibility that she could be thinking the same thing as you. Pay attention to her...read the signs (both good and bad). She loves you and you know it. LMFAO

Answer 2

I don't believe in the statement of "once a cheater will always be a cheater". I believe many people change because of their past experience. They realized what they had done before would reflect them in the future and will ruin their life. That's why they change. I think we must give them a change.

Answer 3

Honestly,no.I dont believe in that saying because i think that people have to make the mistake before they can learn from it.A guy or a girl can cheat and realize how bad it hurt everyone around and then realize that they dont want to ever do it again.But you know there is another sayin that could kinda apply to this,"fool me once shame on me,fool me twice shame on you".So you just have to give that person a second chance,trust them until they give you a reason not to.

Answer 4

I don't believe it. The reason someone cheats is something is lacking from that relationship. I do believe it with some people but not all. Examine the relationship and keep it honest fun and sexual and you should not have to worry about it.

Answer 5

I don't know how I would handle it but, I believe "cheating go'es on forever" once a cheat always a cheat....I could'nt live with a man who cheats.

Answer 6

What goes around comes around. If he or she cheated to be with you, don't pat yourself on the back too quickly. He or she will eventually do it again when something new comes along. Its a cycle and until the right man or woman puts their foot down and puts a stop to it, they will continue to do it.

Answer 7

no, if the person that cheated has found the one they love no he/she will not cheat. you need to find out why they cheated everyone has a reason of why, try to keep them from gettin to
that point. look at it like me and my b/f do " we cheated with each other why cheat on each other" he/she had to want to be with the other person or he/she wouldnt have cheated to being with.

Answer 8

That may or may not be true. I believe that people can change and improve there behavior. But until they make an effort to change, past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior.

Answer 9

Count me as one who does believe in it - I know through the experience happening in the same instance more than once with the same person, I just said bye and thanks for the memories kind of .........not a big deal for either of us......the third party was never contacted by me.

Answer 10

No, it depends entirely on the person, their values, and the relationship period. To judge them based on a single action out of their entire life is very unfair. You would not like people to judge you on only one single action of your life .. would you?