i just need to know, is it very common for a guy to lose interest during sex after ejaculating the first time. im still a virgin so i wouldnt know. its just a general question thats all.
2007-04-30 03:51:00 · 7 answers · asked by ramkrishna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the two main answers you have been getting are…. most guys become disinterested after and most want to go to sleep.
Each guy is a little different in this area. There is no doubt that after sex most men have a very substantial lost of interest. Now if the woman is new to him than his interest might stay quite strong…. but typically as is with this woman more his interest will drop. Not all men have this drop in interest. It has a lot to do with chemistry. When the ejaculates … or more correctly has an orgasm there is a great rush of chemicals that basically make them mailed disinterested. The biological reason for this is to move on…. in other words you have left your seed in this woman why did no one. (Sorry ladies hate to be clinical). The simple test of this which any guy can ask himself is I don't feel interested I just got done…. but then a model walks in the door completely naked…. are you interested?? (Change the girl that interest returns quickly) This is what most male animals and nature do anyway.
Humans of course are more monogamous (more are less). There is a time factor in between when interest will resume. Some guys have interest right away, some take 20 minutes and others take 24 hours.
Certainly after masturbation which might be your only outlet... guys to lose interest quickly afterwards. However with a beautiful naked woman next to you…. it was supplying plenty of encouragement…. your interest tends to return rather quickly.
Of course drug companies would just love to figure this one out…. and of course there is already one drug in the works that brings desire to both men and women. This drug is still in the testing phase but works much different then drugs like Viagra…. this drug works on the brain's desire level….. so some drug company is going to make allow the money in the future
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2007-04-30 16:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by AdviceManHere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. I don't know how it is for most guys, but it actually depends on how I'm feeling at the time. Most of the time when I'm having sex, if I ejaculate, then I usually start to do something else that the girl likes to keep her feeling good until I'm ready to go again. If I REALLY like the girl and we're that attracted to each other, this can happen again and again for hours.
Sometimes however, if I'm really tired, then I'll want to stop after, and do something different (kisses and hugs because we all like it even if it's a girly thing to admit).
2007-04-30 03:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Pete A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a number of factors. If it is late at night then maybe once will be enough... or if I have been drinking. Other times three or four times can be fun. each night and situation is different. It is a fact that once men ejaculate a chemical is released in the brain that makes them relax and feel lethargic but if you wait a few minutes and have the means of stimulating yourself(!) then the lethargic feeling should be overcome and get ready to party once more!!
2007-04-30 03:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by Chelsea Shrimper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. i just wanna go to sleep afterwards.
2007-04-30 04:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
about 99% of men DO lose interest...
2007-04-30 03:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's usually nappy time then.
2007-04-30 05:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are still virgin, you dont need to worry do you?
2007-04-30 03:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋