so i have a friend who i used to work with when i was a teenager well we developed a relationship at work and started having casual sex, she then got back together with her then ex boyfriend and we stopped seeing each other. many years down the road i still see her and go on dates with her, but everytime i mention anything remotly sexual or try to touch her or hold her hand she freaks out about it like gross (note we've had sex before) how do i get her to stop acting like that and acknowledge i want to get back with her in more ways than one?
2007-04-29 20:19:30 · 5 answers · asked by wazzup151821 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably freaks out because she might think that you are leading her on or something. I too have a friend who I used to work with as a teen and we have had sex on and off for the last 2 years. But we are never really intimate with each other, you know no holding hands or cuddling, etc, just sex. He and I have both come straight out and discussed where we stand with each other. Try telling her how you feel and see what her response is, the fact that you two have already slept together and are still friends makes me think that even if she isn't interested in a relationship you will still have her friendship
Hope this helps you :)
2007-04-29 21:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well telling her that is a great start. Let her know how you feel when she acts like that, but if you just want to have sex with her then re-think things. Your obviously not a teenager anymore so maybe instead of acting like a teenager you should look for a serious relationship instead of sex. Come on man I'm 16 and I have better morals than a 20+ year old.
2007-04-30 03:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Brad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't change another person's mind, or heart. You can only continue being yourself and if the other person sees how wonderful you really are, you have a relationship. You might have a talk with her, tell her you you feel and ask if she is interested in the relationship going anywhere. If she says "no", then move on. If she is interested, ask her how she proposes moving forward.
2007-04-30 03:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change. Don't expect the person to stay the same. If you are just looking for sex...I suggest you go find some others.
2007-04-30 03:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ask her whats up u wont die from the answer
2007-04-30 03:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋