Me and the guy I'm dating (we've been dating for a month)-we fooled around on the second date, third date, and fourth date(not full-on sex, but almost)-but I still feel really shy around him whenever we're doing anything but that..HOW Can that be!??! Sex is the most intimate thing ever-how can I do the most intimate thing ever w/ someone and then be nervous and shy around them when it comes to normal things, like talking to them over dinner or talking on the phone? IT doesn't make sense. Someone please explain.
2007-04-29 19:57:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means you really must like him. Believe me, this is normal. I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 and a half years, and sometimes, not always, but sometimes, I get nervous around him. It is because I love him and always want him to think well of me. Again, it's completely normal to feel nervous, at all points in a relationship from time to time.
2007-04-29 20:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by anchorsaway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me too. It's okay to be shy around him, because now he knows you even more. Having sex is special. You might be a little more quiet about things because you have now done the whole deal with him, its not just fooling around now. Now its the choice if you really like him or not, cause now a baby is in the picture. It could happen anytime and it might not be something that you want. Just think about how much you like him, k.
2007-04-29 20:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Moxie, Louds like it's all about the sex. May be that's why you are being a little shy and nervous around him you really don't have anything to say to him. Your connection is for sex only. At least that is what i am seeing and hearing.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-04-29 20:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 03:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the most likely answer to your problem is that altho u enjoy his presence and enjoy him and even though you've had sex that doesnt mean that you guys really know eachother that well, theres probably some things about him that you dont know and getting to know him better so u really feel connected can solve this, maybe try spending some time with him that involves more talking or spending time with him in a more casual environment if u havnt yet, try to be comfortable
2007-04-29 20:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by D4Ni3L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you being nervous about yourself? Are you doubting your feelings for him? Are you asking yourself if this is something you really want to do or are you just going along with the program because he's nice and you don't want to appear foolish? Look deep inside yourself and ask what it is you really want. If it's him, then go for it. Your previous question was about just feeling nervous and maybe I didn't get it quite right. So, look at yourself first and find out what you are really looking for.
2007-04-29 20:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then go for the intimate thing more since it makes you feel relax. Or are you the horny type?
2007-04-29 20:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you became intimate too soon. No worries though--you will get past that awkward stage with more time together.
2007-04-29 20:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Dave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but thx for 2 points
2007-04-29 20:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋