I met this guy for 4.5 months ago. A month ago we became exclusive. He messages me all the time telling how amazing I am and how lucky he is to have met me..etc.. He says nice things about himself too, like that he is amazing, good looking..etc... We like to joke around a lot and he was making jokes about me putting a picture of him up on my wall. I would laugh, thinking he was joking. A couple days ago, as a gift, he gave me a framed photo of him. It looks proffesionally done.He is expecting me to hang it up in my room, as I am renovating it and told him I plan on black and white pics on the wall(the pic is black and white)We have been "dating" for one month!What is going on with this guy? Is he conceited or confident?It is almost getting annoying how much he builds himself up, like as if he's trying to convince me he is the best guy in the world.I don't think he's that good looking personally. The picture looks good, but it's NOT going on my friggin bedroom wall! Wat r ur thoughts?
2007-04-29 19:33:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL Lois...maybe I'll try that
2007-04-29 19:47:55 · update #1
Just laugh at him and tell him you thought he was joking. just keep refusing his request and tell him to shut up about himself.
2007-04-29 19:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is funny about his picture on your wall to begin with? I would listen very carefully with what this guy says...in a serious relationship, lives are built together keeping a foundation that lasts for a long time. If this dude thinks its funny that you put a picture of him on a wall after only one month of commitment...you should at least take some consideration about whats going on with his head. And his plans for your future, rather than your plans for his. Putting his picture on your wall is not conceited...thats belligerant....i don't know the guy but think twice about him....
2007-04-29 19:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by entropy1001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants his pic on your wall in case any "other" guys come over, so they'll see it and be curious. "Who's that guy?" they'll ask, and if you're hesitant with your answer, they'll think something's up. If you don't really wanna be exclusive, tell him now before it goes too far. Tell him that he seems to be rushing the relationship and it's making you feel uncomfortable. If he's cool, he'll understand and take it slower. You just have to communicate well with each other or it's never gonna work out.
2007-04-29 19:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by Yvonne B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy I like is kind of like that, but in his case I think it's a cover. And I think my guy is totally hot and I do have several pictures of him in my room. Why wouldn't you want to have a pic of your bf?
His overconfidence is probably just a cover for some insecurities. I mean, even you, his gf, say he's not that good looking. What do others say about him?
2007-04-29 19:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The joking part is ok ! but to actually give you a photo & request it to be put in your wall not a good idea! .He's very conceited but I think he's just making himself less nervous that's why he compliments himself a lot but in my experience I use to that & I think it annoys the ladies most of the time. In the bible there's a saying Those who exalts himself shall be humbled & those who humbles himself shall be exalted.Drop him unless he changes.
2007-04-29 19:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by Agent_Detergent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think he's that good looking, then chances are good that he's heard that from other females. He might just be too confident for his own good, but maybe he's just looking for some assurance? He obviously realizes how good he's got it with you, so maybe he's checking to see if you think you've got it good with him too. Talk to him about it in a round-about way so as not to hurt his feelings. Tell him that you know he's a good guy, and that you have it good, but that you're sick of him telling you that. If he gets upset, then you know he's just arrogant. Then that's a whole nuther problem you have to deal with. Good luck
2007-04-29 19:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by lehua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to build himself up in your eyes. Sounds a bit insecure about the relationship. Tell him, if it bothers you. You could say that the next time you hear someone compliment him, it better not be him, or ask him who is he trying to convince you, or himself?
2007-04-29 19:42:51 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's putting his mark on you as his chick. He wants that picture of him in your room for any guy who comes in there to see, they'll know you're taken. Kind of like a girl leaving something of hers behind at her boyrfriends house.
Or he could be totally conceded and thinking he's it and you're all lucky and s**t to have him, LMAO. Ever seen the movie "10 things I hate about you" That guy showing the girl his picture....
2007-04-29 19:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have answered your own question. if what he says is undisputed, then he might just be confident. but he's conceited if he thinks more of himself than what's necessary. and you said that he puts extra details on personal descriptions, and that he doesn't measure up to his own stats...hmmmm
2007-04-29 19:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by Dynamo! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
having experience with that situation and the man that I am with, I know that he is neither. He is self-concious. He has doubts and faults about himself and he won't tell you about them, trust me. Just ask him about it and maybe he will give in. Hopefully he's a sensitve one.
Good Luck!
2007-04-29 19:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by BabyGirl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋