i loved 1 guy and i also had sex with him . he says that he will not marry me . what should i do ???

Question

i am pregnant now

Answer 1

This act of his clear amounts to cheating under section 415 IndianPenalCode whoever, by deceiving any person, fraudulently or dishonestly induces the person so deceived to deliver any property to any person, or to consent that any person shall retain any property, or intentionally induces the person so deceived to do or omit to do anything which he would not do omit if he were not so deceived, and which act or omission causes or is likely to cause damage or harm to that person in body, mind, reputation or property, is said to "cheat".
For which he can be punished under section 417 IPC whoever cheats shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to one year, or with fine. Or with both. He can also be charged under section 493IPC Cohabitation caused by a man deceitfully inducing a belief of lawful marriage:-
Every man who by deceit causes any woman who is not lawfully married to him to believe that she is lawfully married to him and to cohabit or have sexual intercourse with him in that belief, shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to ten years, and shall also be liable to fine. Tell him all this & ask him if he wants to get charged under all these previsions of criminal law & face punishment behind the bars or enjoy matrimonial life with you in his bedroom, definitely you will get a reply & do accordingly.

Answer 2

Why did you expect him to marry you just because you had sex with him? Also why should he marry you just because you're pregnant? This is the 21st century, you should only get married because you want to spend the rest of your life with the other person. Trapping a guy into marrying is totally not cool. What you should do now is decide whether you want to have and/or keep the baby. You have three options:

1. Have the baby and raise it by yourself;
2. Have the baby and place it for adoption; and
3. Abort the baby.

Should you choose the 1st option you can get child support from the father.

Answer 3

having unprotected sex with a person who has not committed anything to you was a big mistake on your part. Looks like the guy was looking out only for some fun and was not really serious about you. Even if you force him to marry you somehow, you are not likely to be happy with him.

You should now think of your future. Consult a good doctor and have the pregnancy terminated (if your religion permits it). Forget the whole episode. I know that this is easier said than done, but make an effort anyway. Making oher changes in your life will help, for instance, change of job, change of residence and so on. Move on and do not make the same mistake again. I am sure you will find somebody far better and be happy in your life.

All the best.

Answer 4

Whatever you do, don't listen to the one that said tell him your preg. to see if he will marry you then. If he only marries you for that, it will be way worse than now. Let him decide and if he says no, then tell him his loss and oh yeah big boy, i am pregnant. hope whoever you do marry doesn't mind you child support payments. Then move on and find a person worth it. And for god sakes, don't let just having sex produce love, not too many people in the world still use that.
Hope all turns out ok and above all, no matter the person , just be a good mom. You don't need anyone to do that.

Answer 5

I would focus on making a life for myself and my child. If this is the child's father, maybe he'll come around once he sees the baby. He could be just scared right now. I known guys who panic and refuse to marry the person. That happened to my sister, and he got scared, said he would never marry her, but as soon as the baby was being born, he was right there. Not long afterwards, he married her.

But in the meantime, I wouldn't depend on him or wait around until he figures out what he really wants. I'd be making my own plans, life goes on, with or without him.

Answer 6

Too late to ask. You had sex with him only to get him and he for the pleasure. What you can do now? One of this.

Have the baby and complain about him to police that he ditched you after promising to marry.

Abort the baby, forget this incident and marry somebody else by telling him about this (in which case he will not marry you) or not telling.

Remain with the kid like a Sanyasin for the rest of the life for the sin you have committed.

Answer 7

I am not sure if the guy reciprocated your love. He might have been looking for an easy lay and got it. Now you have the option of taking him to the courts, that's if you have the courage to stand up and fight. It will mean a lot of unwanted attention and obviously a bad publicity. This not withstanding, you have the right to fight! And he is legally wrong!! Good luck.
PS: There are many brands of condoms available in the market. Familiarize yourself with them, before "falling" in love again!!!

Answer 8

How many of these type of questions have you asked? Few minutes back I answered one question of yours. Your B/F getting angry because you refused to have sex with him before marriage. Now you say that you had sex and are pregnant. Which question came first? You asking us what should you do? Don't you know what to do? There are so many options available and so many consequences. See what is best for you.

But I feel that these are hypothetical queries. Not real ones.

Answer 9

He got what he wanted, why should he ever marry you....I still don't understand.......how do some girls give it away so easily.......considering that it's the only thing boys want......why are you blaming your boyfriend...you are equally responsible for the mistake...as you too could not control your urge.....secondly if you are so ashamed to buy protection from the chemist......why were you not ashamed to get into the act........why you didn't make him wait till marriage....If you can live with the consequence of going public for rest of your life.....take action against him....or if you can tell your child later that he is a bas.....d .....then go with adoption.....or simply get aborted and live with guilt......whow...so many exciting options you have....all the best.....

Answer 10

First of all try to convenince him if he is not at all taking intrest don't talk to ur friends to resolve the case of ur pregency.Use "Regulin fort" .This is a tablet for complete solution of ur pregency .Take this medicine after consulting to a doctor.
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Only u ve to do is "abortion". Then start a new life. Life will go as the times pass by.This is also a part of life.U ve done the mistake means u ve to suffer for it.
This is the only way out. abortion.

take care

Answer 11

Take your parents in confidence, if at all it is possible.
You can go ahead and deliver the child if the conception is late. Otherwise, you can go in for abortion if it is very early.
After the delivery, you can sue him for giving you a false promise and get it proved though DNA test.You can seek compensation as well. But it depends upon you as to what you want. One of the answers, who aloways gives free advice, has already given you the legal angle. But remember that life exteds beyond legal provisions.