he cheated on me w/this girl they hang out and had sex for the first date.now they are 1 mos.i dumped him when i found out..he said they already break up,but his lying..i've change my#..now i feel so sad,i still miss him,and still loved him,but i can't forget what he done to me.don't know what to do.how can i forget him?
2007-04-29 19:01:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try and meet new people and go on a few carefree dates. Let the guy your meeting know that you just got over something and that you feel sensitive. If you still are thinking of this guy when the person your seeing kisses you goodnight go and have a long talk with your cheating boy. maybe you will come up with a good answer...
2007-04-29 19:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by bendystraw_gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt for a while because it is natural you loved him. I went through the same thing a long time a ago and went back to him, It didint work whenever we were not together I was obsessed with the idea of him being out there and doing it again. It is not healthy to not trust someone and onc that trust is broken it is very hard for some people to trust again. I am very happy to say that you will get over it and find someone that is commited to you, but you have to love yourself as well and not not someone treat you that way. Not all men cheat and there are good guy's out there. Good luck go out and spoil yourself shopping works.
2007-04-29 22:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by ingrid_dorigo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about this--Will you still love him the next time he cheats on you? How about the next time? And what about the time after that?
He is a cheater, and you did the right thing. He does not deserve your love. Find a nice guy that will respect you. Stay strong and good luck!! You will get over the saddness pretty soon.
2007-04-29 19:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. Try new activities. Who knows how many people SHE is sleeping with. Do not go back with him because there is no trust left. I know its hard, but you will survive and find someone who really deserves you. Read the "laws of attraction" website. Sometimes we have to be precise in order to get our one true love. You are very romantic and a very special person.
2007-04-29 19:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by glenda576 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decrease ties with him. If he really love you the way you adore him, then the youngsters would not be counted. you may want to be married with somebody else and nonetheless be on your toddlers existence one hundred%. seem on the Brady Bunch. He loves his spouse....it really is his spouse. once you 2 connected he might want to were fairly vulunerable and used you, not in a unfavourable way, yet to get over the thoughts he develop into feeling from the separation. relationship and merely about getting married is thoroughly diverse from actully being married with youngsters. both do not evaluate. you ought to thank God you're out of this now w/o any ties. keep in contact, yet bypass on to someone that really love you.
2016-12-05 02:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by niesporek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bound to have feelings for there had to be something for you to go out with him to start with but being a cheater I just don't think it is a good ideal to go out with him again.
Move on there is a lot more out there, you just never know you just may find a much better person that is meant for you and you will be much much more happier.
Good Luck
2007-04-29 19:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by David R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation. If you can't forgive and forget then let him go. because drama will start because it will be on your mind all the time and that will bug you and make you very, very insecure and that's the worst that could happen so let it go and try to move on even if you love him.
2007-04-29 19:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Young Vito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll get over it. Allow yourself to get disgusted with what he did, HAVE SOME SELF RESPECT!!! Trust me, you'll get over it. You dont really love him or miss HIM, you love and miss what you guys had before he f***cked you over. You could never get back with him anyway, how could you ever trust him again, he f**cked up and thats that. One day (trust me on this too) he will come crawling back and you wont even care, you'll be like, Yuck.
2007-04-29 19:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u forget him? look ,to me i dont care for anyone unless he care for me,how can i care for someone he dont care for me,how can i give her love if she got no love for me and i think anyone cheating he ain`t got love cuz if someone love another he`ll do anything to keep him/her smile and feel rest.and im sure that ain`t come with cheating,so u dont have to care for him cuz he dont care for u and im sure of that.but u will toke a while to forget him ,a few dayz
take care
2007-04-29 22:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by hood_lova@yah........ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me. i am that guy in many relationships. he did it once and he WILL do it again. just forget about him, you will do much better.
2007-04-29 19:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋