My mom's friend (he is 76) was diagnosed with leukemia last year and i found out tonight.He has alwyas been there for us so i count him as my grandpa. My other grandpa died 7 years ago. And my other grandpa is across the ocean in Europe. SO he is the only one that lives in Canada. I feel so depressed. Cuz his daughter doesnt care about him she just uses him for money she is 28 years old spoiled). And his wife died. I dont know what to do. He is a doctor. But they dont know when he will collapse on the floor and die. What should I do to make myself feel better? I dont want to lose another of my grandpa like i lost my first one of lung (smoker) cancer!
2007-04-29 17:38:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
Realize this man is a physician and has more insight into the situation. Talk to him and support him. You can make yourself feel better by loving this person and knowing you will be there for him! God bless.
2007-05-03 11:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by donalore_43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry honey which you're able to pass by way of this technique back yet regrettably it fairly is the cycle of existence. the reliable information is that he's a doctor and he will do each and every thing he can to maintain himself alive as long as accessible. all of us lose our relatives in some unspecified time interior the destiny in our lives- my proper suggestion to you is to cherish each and every minute you have with him- take pics, video, do as much as you may with him and make a scrap e book of the flaws you do and the places you pass--- if he can no longer pass far, even out on your backyard choosing plant existence, observing television, enjoying video games, COMPANIONSHIP is what counts maximum to him and interior the destiny to you... considering which you will in no way have the guilt which you weren't there for him like his daughter, so basically be there and fantastically to your mom, it will be devastating for her--and he or she could look very nicely now, yet whilst it happens she will have the skill to wish you 24/7 and please be reliable and be there for her. God bless..........
2016-12-10 15:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haley -
My wife is currently going through chemotherapy after breast cancer surgery to be followed by radiation treatment.
I found that the best thing to do is to educate yourself in order to totally understand their predicament using unlimited web resources available (see below), and going with him for doctor visits, so that you can retain doctor advice - as well as ask pertinent questions.
2007-04-29 17:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by jit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best thing that you can do is to talk with him and be a neat grandaughter. Thank God that you are there and can keep him company. That will make you feel better. You'll always have fond memories of him. Bless you.
2007-04-29 19:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by Neil L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the most of the time you have left
2007-04-29 17:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Brian G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋