friday during 7th period, me and my crush hooked up in the girls bathroom and a teacher walked in......we were in the stall but she caught us and we got in trouble.....my parents are really mad at me and i dont know what to do because im scared to show my face at school now...
2007-04-29 15:29:20 · 34 answers · asked by kierstin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way, im 15
2007-04-29 15:33:06 · update #1
Relax Kirsten, it's not the end of the world. Your parents understand more than you think. Sexual curiosity is natural and very nomal. Just be careful and be honest with your parents. Talk to them. Let them know that you're not a little kid anymore. Let them know that you like boys in a different way than riding bicycles or sharing ice cream cones. Above all else, stay in school. DO NOT let your temporary lack of good judgement ruin your life. Good luck to you. Take care.
2007-04-29 15:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Rex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you think your parents would react?
What did you expect the teacher to do?
Im sorry you got caught, and happy you are sexually active, but sex brings with it responsibility. Being responsible means knowing when and where it is appropriate.
were you both in the right restroom? (meaning is your crush another girl)
And if you are hooking up, its no longer a crush
.A crush is liking someone from afar.
Not that it matters, but school is not the place to hook up.
But then, I did it at school before too.But I grad 37 years ago.
Guess I would rather catch kids screwing in school instead of shooting each other.
Its going to take along time for your parents to get over your actions. They are mad sure, they are also disappointed, worried, and sad.
What about your crushs' parents. How are they about it.
As for showing your face at school, be prepared for snubs from the girls,and propositions from the guys.
You will be labled a tramp or worse by many.
Sorry, you have to accept what you did, hold your head high and get through it.
You are not the first nor will you be the last student caught doing it at school.
Tomorrow something else will be headlines at school.
So keep your pants on in school. It only lasts a few hours a day and you have alll the time you need after school, off campus.
2007-04-29 15:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We live and we learn. Just next time you and your crush hook up, make sure its not in a public place. And its going to be hard showing your face at school, but give it a couple of weeks and someone else will be the new talk of the school. And what you and your crush did will be almost forgotten about. And if I were your parents, I would be mad to. You need to have a little more respect for yourself than to get it on in a bathroom. Or to get it on at all, if you are still in school.
2007-04-29 15:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try and attract any attention to you for the next few days. Just wait till the whole episode has blown over. But I don't mean that as stay at home or hide in school or anything. Just lay low in school and act as though everything is fine. Don't let whatever others say get to you.
Oh, and in future, if you and your crush want to have a snog-fest, make sure you hold up till the end of school and you're somewhere far away from a teachers or parents eye!
2007-04-29 15:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just hold your head high and don’t comment. Look at all the people who “got caught” and are not suffering for it. It can be done. You weren’t evil – just maybe unwise. And do go back to school. You look much more guilty if you stay away. It will be hard - but way better in the long run.
And then take a look what you did do and who you did it with. And learn from your experience so that you can make wiser decisions as you move forward.
2007-04-29 15:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by midtownirene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, did you get thrown out of school yet? you should have been. Doing the no-no on school property usually gets you downtime, which then causes your parents grief, but it should teach you a lesson that the only place to do it is in your own home after you're married. Why are you scared to show your face at school, just because they will give you a name now? Learn, and don't do it again. Hopefully whatever you did doesn't get you pregnant. I imagine your parents are wondering "where did I go wrong, we thought we taught her some morals".
2007-04-29 16:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, yea. There's a reason why they make rules like no sex at school. But now that it's too late, you don't have any choice but to face up to the consequences and embarrassment. Keep your head held high and just apologize. Muster through it and it will blow over soon.
2007-04-29 15:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by jillo4113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gross! Why would you do that. Now you are gonna be known as the girl who did it in a bathroom stall! You just have to stay close to your friends! Concentrate on school and stay away from boys.
2007-04-29 15:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are going to have to face them at school sometime. I am sure you are not the only girl at school to get caught doing anything with a guy..people will forget about it in time, if they don't...ignore them and they will stop talking about it.
2007-04-29 15:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by omorris1978 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By hooked up do u mean sex? if so o shi-. You are going to have yourself some troubling times ahead (rumors and such). According to japanese fokelaw a rumor lasts 72 days so if you can endure it, you should be fine
2007-04-29 15:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋