So i am a 14 year old girl, i weigh 130,wear a size 7 and i cant get a boyfriend. Is there anything i can do??? I am not the most popular, i mean i have popular friends, band friends, jock friends, im friends with everyone. Is there anything that makes guys like want a girl more or like any type of flirting moves i can do???
2007-04-29 15:25:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok. 1st of all, don't take any **** that says you have to go on a diet of get thinner because we are all beautiful. Now the thing I can say is that just be yourself and if you want a guy to like you just get into stuff that guys like and try finding guys that like the stuff that you do.
2007-04-29 15:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by Luna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question I would ask is why do you think you need a boyfriend? The second question I would ask is if you do find a boyfriend would you be any happier? Having a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend is meaningless. If you want somebody to share your hopes and dreams with, make friends. If one of your friends excites you and makes you want to be a better person, ask for a relationship. If it's a no, he's still a friend (and if he's isn't then, he never was). If it's a yes, there you go. Also it's better not to whore yourself out to the first bidder. The boys who are interested in those girls do not have the brightest of futures. (also, modesty can be a greater turn-on than explicit cleavage and the like once you do have a boyfriend. Also, your future boyfriend won't be as jealous because he thinks you're reserving your beauty just for him and no one else.)
2007-04-29 22:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, the people that want a boyfriend desperately are the girls who aren't really ready for one yet. And popular friends doesn't mean that you will have a higher chance of getting asked out. Believe me. I was a complete dork, and still am and never got asked out because the guys that are worth having were too shy to ask me. Dead serious. anyway, as a freshman I got asked to prom by a very nice tall, cute (ish) boy and I didn't even do anything. My best advice would be, think about having guy friends, not boyfriends and you will be surrounded by boys who will realize what a divine goddess you are and ask you out. Be friends first. And ,
on a side note,
Don't ever purposefully flirt with boys. Its too obvious and they get repulsed. Talk to them as you would a girlfriend.
2007-04-29 22:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes as the 2nd person replyed, you are only 14 honey. Trust me and take this advice from a 26 yr old female. YOU DON'T NEED A BOYFRIEND RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I thought the same thing when I was your age and it got me no where fast. Focus on your schooling and have fun being young and care free.
When you are least expecting it a guy will come along and sweep you right off your feet.
2007-04-29 22:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by angie w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all your size does NOT matter when it comes to having a bf...and i know everyone says this but you dont "need" a boyfriend at your age...personally i think it is much better to spend your time developing your personality and being with friends....and most importantly just BE YOURSELF! don't try to act like someone different because when you start hanging out with someone & they realize you're not the person you were pretending to be, it will make life difficult!
2007-04-29 22:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 13, i weigh 105 pounds, and i'm friends with basically most ppl. i have a BF, after a long history of dorkiness and bad realationships.
all you CAN do is: be yourself
put yourself out there and sho your best attributes. the right guy will come to you. and who knows? the right guy may be closer than you think.
IM me if you want to talk.
good luck
2007-04-29 22:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by Erin Nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well once I bought one at Walmart, but I quickly realized you get what you pay for. So then I got one at Macy's. But I picked him up on the sale rack and he had a few seams that were unraveling. Once I spotted one in the gutter, but I just kept walking...
What I learned is you don't go looking for love. You go looking for yourself and love finds you. It has nothing to do with weight or the size of your trousers. Guys are drawn to women who are confident and comfortable with themselves.
2007-04-29 22:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sidle on up to him and ask him in a flirtatious tone of voice, "Hey, do you know what time it is? I've got to be home by (time of date in 5 minutes) and I don't have a watch."
Then after he tells you what time it is gasp and ask him if he could Pretty Pretty Please get SOMEONE to drive you home.
But then again you're 14 so it might not work at all times.
2007-04-29 22:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by Trisscar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has nothing to do with height, weight or size, it's your personality that attracts people. be yourself and the right guy will come along, don't worry you're only 14!
2007-04-29 22:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax about it and hang in there it seams like it will take forever but the right guy will come along and then you will be glad you waited. just be yourself you want the guy you end up with to like you for you.
2007-04-29 22:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by gibson8026 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋