(we have been together for almost 2 years) my boyfriend got mad because i didnt call him for 2 days..which i thought was kinda strange because we dont talk everyday and i was really busy those 2 days. i couldnt of reached him anyways because his phone was broken and his home phone was broken too so he could of just called me if it was that important. i called to apologize anyways and he hung up on me. then he called back and hung up on me again. i went to a party and he was calling another girl and the girl has a boyfriend already. so what does that even mean?
im just really, really confused :[
i dont understand what is going on in my relationship and everything seems to just be going more and more down hill..
2007-04-29 13:25:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like the beginning of mind game playing and you are it.
If its been going downhill before this then a breakup is in the works, its terribly rude of him to call another girl when you are there, its a sort of declaration of his independence. He is tell ing you he doesn't care if you know or not. I never heard of such a coincidence as having your cell and you landline out of commission at the same time, for the same two days. Isn't it possible he wasn't picking up or wasn't there?
Its like he can't be a man enough to break up so hes playing head games to make you miserable. Do what he can't and tell him you think you and he are at the end of your run together.
You really don't want a man like that for the long haul.
2007-04-29 13:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his phone was broken, how does he even know you did not try to call him. Something is a little fishy about both his phones being broken at the same time. Why are you both at the same party but not together? I don't understand what you two are doing at all. It does not even sound like a relationship, it sounds like a disaster. You both need to sit down and decide where you are at and what you expect out of this relationship, without playing the blame game. If you can't agree then move on.
2007-04-29 20:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by debk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is too much of a puss to break up with you so he is trying to blame you for something he did wrong. Screw him you deserve better you did nothing wrong and you will find better. Life is to short to spend it with someone that does not appreicate you
2007-04-29 20:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by robjd_2103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is trying to blame you for his own actions (calling the other girl) he is trying to make hmself feel better by thinking, "well, if she didnt call me, that must mean she doesnt care if i call this other girl" give it a scond chance, but if he acts like that again, its not worth it
2007-04-29 20:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by brunettebeachbum72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he tried to start an argument with you about you noy calling so that he could brake up with you and it be your fault because he obviously wants this other girl from the partyt
2007-04-29 20:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by jahvar's mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your problem, don't take it, it is his problem and must seek medical treatment
2007-04-29 20:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by Iranian2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump this loser....and find anotherone.
2007-04-29 20:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by billgreenthumb69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋