OKay so i just turned 13 it hasn't even been a whole month yet. I recently met this guy...he's 16 though. He extremely sweet and he's totally nice. Yesterday i was talking on the phone with him, we talk to eachother alot, and he asked me out to the movies...I really wanna go out with him...but i'm scared...i mean...he can drive! I really like this guy, but would it be wrong for me to go out with him?
2007-04-29 13:14:43 · 13 answers · asked by Roxy Andrews 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like your typical highschool guy.. Underneath all that sweetness is a jerk.. Def beware,hes prob expecting something from you*If u know what i mean*. He prob thinks since your younger he can get you to do things with him..
I'd be cautious as to talking to him and going on dates with him. esp dates when its in a big dark place...
hope i helped
2007-04-29 13:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by babbyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may come as a shock to you, but he also has a mobile phone... ok perhaps not. I am guessing the reason you are scared is you think he might be the guy from wolf creek and he is going to drive you off a cliff.
If thats not the case then you think he is too good for you cause he owns a car. So what, criminals own cars drug dealers own cars, armed robbers etc. A car doesnt make you any better sometimes it can be used to overcomensate for a lack of something.
Dont be so easily mislead. Just relax and realise that he is a human, he eats he sleeps and he poops just like you and he aint perfect (most likely far from it).
2007-04-29 20:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know him best. Be careful in your choices.. You have MANY MANY YEARS of time to date as far as sex goes i would wait. Rushing into that only causes problems. If hes after sex you will know the first date. I would probbly take him on a date where your parrents drive you to a movie and then home that way you can see how he acts and see if you can trust him to be alone with him.
2007-04-29 20:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by the_reverend2u2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just be my opinion but it seems kind of creepy to me cause you just turned 13. Id go but just as friends. make sure he doesnt do anything your uncomfortable with. every guy can be sweet if he wants to be but their true colours can come out once your alone so make sure people know where you are and you your with for your own safety
2007-04-29 20:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by ROB D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong for you to like him. I have exactly the same problem but if your parents feel that it's alright for you to go out with him, then it's fine. It would be wrong if you dissapoint your parents and do something illegal but if you think that you really like this guy, go for it! I wish you the absolute best of luck! ^.^
2007-04-29 20:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by jazzymusicblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its wrong for you to go to the movies with the guy if you really like him but if you do go why don't you take a friend and her guy with you.And it can be a double date.
2007-04-29 20:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Flawless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it´s not wrong in fact it is very common that the guy is older than the girl what you should consider is how mature he is for you anyway my advice for you is to get to know him better before going out with him
2007-04-29 20:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by itzel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you kinda are a little too young to date sumbody like him i mean i understand that hes sweet but he still is very older and very stronger that you. yea he is sweet and nice but that can be a disguise just to get into your pants
2007-04-29 20:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u're heart say u should go then just go u'll be fine. Just try not to cross limit on first date.
2007-04-29 20:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by zub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe htat you should go out with him if you know him really well and if your dad and mom agree with that guy and you going out with him.
2007-04-29 20:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by arturin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋