Is selling something that was once a gift to me considered wrong?

Answer 1

Only if the person that gave you the gift finds out.

What you are talking about falls under the category of "re-gifting." Where a person takes an object given to them as a gift and sells it or gives it as a gift to another person.

It is often done, but it is not not that polite to do. People do it all the time, but it is still not polite. However, it is practical and often done. The only thing you have to worry about is making sure that who ever gave you the gift, and thought that you would like it, never finds out that you sold it. This means putting it on Craig's List or eBay may not be a very good idea.

Answer 2

Not at all, if you have no use for the gift or just don't like it there is no harm in selling it to someone who could put it to good use. Just hope that the person who gave you the gift doesn't ask to see it !!

Answer 3

I don't think so. I do that. If you don't need the gift, and the person who gave it truly loves you, they will be only too happy for you to "re-cycle" their gift into a form that can be useful to you. I would still feel grateful for the gift... especially since it was doubley useful to me.

Sure, some people might judge you for selling it, and say you're not grateful, but you know what's in your heart, and if you really are grateful for the person's love and help, then there's no sin in that.

Answer 4

It depends on the gift. If it was something that someone gave as a friendly surprise though had no significance to it then I would say ok. However when they gave it to you if it did have a personal significance then I would say no because it must have been special in the moment you recieved it, and do you really want to give that away?

Answer 5

The Etiquette of Regifting


Everyone loves opening a perfectly wrapped package with a shiny bow. But sometimes once you open that gift, it's not exactly what you expected – or even something you want. And after you feign excitement for the obligatory amount of time, what do you do with it? Well, if you're like most Americans, you regift or pass the less-than-stellar present on to someone else who might enjoy it more. A recent Tassimo survey found that a whopping 78 percent of Americans feel that it is acceptable to regift some or most of the time.


So, if you are going to regift this year, here is how to do it right.

Make sure the recipient will like it. Most people who regift do so because the gift is perfect for someone else (77 percent), which is what gift giving is all about. "You don't want the recipient to have any feeling at all that you are giving them the castoff," says Peggy Post, etiquette expert and author of Excuse Me, But I Was Next. "At the bottom of all this, it's all about being respectful and considerate." Post is an admitted regifter. In one instance she received two copies of the same book and gave one unwrapped copy to her mother-in-law after explaining the entire situation. It's also acceptable to regift when you are absolutely certain the recipient would like to have that gift, Post says.

Regift to different social circles. If you're going to regift, you need to do it outside of the social circle where you originally received the gift. Some 29 percent of regift recipients recognized the regift because they were present when the gift was first given. "If you were given something by someone in your church group, give it to someone in your school group," says Marsha Collier, a Los Angles-based eBay expert and admitted regifter. "Always send out a thank you note right away and put a Post-it on it so you don't regive it to the same circle of friends."

Make sure it's new. Leon Foerster, an insurance agent in Ripon, Wis., recalls receiving an 8-track player full of cobwebs as a wedding gift – a sure tip-off something is not new. Post recommends you don't regift anything that does not come with its original packaging and instructions. The least you can do is rewrap the gift and put a fresh card on it. A full 16 percent of regifters were spotted because the gift tag had the wrong name on it, Tassimo found. You never want to give away a gift the original giver took great care to select, Post says, such as a homemade sweater or scarf. You should also hold on to handmade and one-of-a kind items. The most common regifted items, Tassimo found, are decorative household knickknacks like vases, paintings, and picture frames.

YOU CAN ALSO RESELL. "One year my daughter was given a Mickey Mouse lamp by a relative who didn't realize she was too old for a Mickey Mouse lamp," says Collier. Her solution: Sell it on eBay. "When we're opening gifts for the holiday there is the eBay pile," says Collier, who usually lists six to eight unwanted Christmas gifts for sale on Christmas Day. "The whole point of someone giving you a gift is to make you happy," she says. "If the gift doesn't make you happy why not sell it on eBay so you can get something that will really make you happy." Only your user ID is visible when you sell something online and eBay also allows you to donate any percentage of the sale to a charity of your choice.

Gift cards are regifted too. Thirty percent of people have regifted gift cards or gift certificates, Tassimo found. Alternatively, you could sell, albeit at a discount, or swap your gift card for a different store on swapagift.com for a $3.99 listing fee, regardless of the amount on the card. "Sellers can turn their gift cards into cash," says Michael Kelly, the president and chief operating officer of the Langhorne, Pa.-based company. "Swappers can trade them for cards they really want."

Laughter is the greatest gift of all. A new website, www.regiftable.com, created by the Houston-based nonprofit organization Money Management International, provides a forum for sharing regifting experiences, which range from horrifying to hilarious. One poster, Jennifer Aither, an insurance agent in Ripon, Wis., has a family tradition of regifting. For nearly 20 years a peanut butter maker has been passed off as a gift at weddings, anniversaries, and birthdays. Aither has it now, but she plans to pass it along to a cousin at an upcoming baby shower. "It's become a huge joke," Aither says. "It was so obvious to me that it was a regift that I had to laugh. It's so tacky, it's funny."





essentially no, reselling the gift you received is not wrong and it is not improper etiquette.

Answer 6

She sounds somewhat nutty. perchance she thought you have been going to stuff it in some attic regardless of the undeniable fact that somewhat than sell it? a number of the stuff ought to have been sentimentally efficient to her as nicely and you bought it? yet she could have in no way gotten violent in direction of you. clarify your problem and tell her to no longer touch you like that returned for any reason. you ought to confirm why precisely she became so fired up approximately "her" cloth possessions. I say, in case you have saved it for a year and then desperate to get rid of it then it is your decision. She don't have given it to you if she needed you to maintain it constantly and ever.

Answer 7

Not at all. If the gift has no sentimental value to you, and if the person will not be asking for it back anytime soon...sell it!

Answer 8

Well it depends. I wouldn't get rid of any gift that was given to me unless I didn't like them anymore and knew I wouldn't ever again.

Even if I don't use it, it's still nice to keep because it shows that someone has thought of me :)

Answer 9

Nope. It's called "re-gifting." Share the love. Just keep the fact to yourself.

Answer 10

if you didnt like the gift, its your choice to sell / return / etc.