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I think my man is cheating, how can I know if he does?

2007-04-29 09:47:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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no!! some are but not all

2007-04-29 09:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by JM 3 · 0 0

If you feel that something is wrong, then chances are he's cheating. Listen to your sixth sense that is telling you there might be a problem, it's never wrong. Some signs though are comes home late, claims working late at office. Cancels plans, distracted, starts fights with you for no reason (this is so you will break up with him and he doesn't have to feel guilty) short temper, irritated easily. Sex becomes non existent except when you insist. Gets phone calls that he suddenly has to take outside then says it's a friend calling, he'll either have to rush out to help his friend and he's not sure how long he'll be, or he'll just make the flimsy excuse that it's a friend calling.

You'll know the signs, they try to hide them but they can't because they feel too guilty. If he's home every night and you can account for his whereabouts all the time and sex is great, then he's definately not cheating.

If you are unsure, the next time he says he's going to a friends, go over and see if his car is there, or show up at the bar he claims he's at with this friends. (don't show your face) you are simply doing a drive by to alleviate your fears.

Mine used to go out with friends and not come home, he'd call me first thing in the morning and tell me he got drunk and passed out on a friends couch. when I redialed the number he'd called from a woman's voice answered on the machine. When confronted with the news he cried and said he wasn't cheating, but his story kept changing, that's when I decided he was soon to be my ex.

Good luck, not all men cheat, but remember, once a cheater always a cheater, don't take him back if you find he's cheating, he'll never change.

2007-04-29 17:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by Weimaraner Mom 7 · 0 0

NO not every man cheats. I find the best way to find out if he is to ask him about something that you might be supicious of right when it happens; wait a couple of days and ask him later when he isn't really thinking about it anymore. If he gives you the same answer as the first time then you are fine....other wise keep your eyes open. Guys aren't very good at hiding their cheating. You will start to notice little things like answering phone calls and leaving the room, hiding things, staying out later with no explaination. Follow your gut; it won't lead you wrong.

2007-04-29 16:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra C 3 · 0 0

-If he is less attentive to you than what he used to be.
-If his cell phone is all of a sudden turned off, locekd, on vibrate or on silent whenever he is around you.

I could go on about this but just know that a womans intuition is usually right about these types of things. Find the right time to talk to him and look him dead in his eyes and ask him is he cheating. You know your man so more than likely you can probably tell if he is lying or not.
But just in case your man may be good at lying and covering up things such as cheating then I can guaruntee you one thing thing...whatever he is doing in the dark will eventually come to light I promise you. No matter how long it may take, a slip up is always bound to happen.

2007-04-29 17:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by ♣Chronickandy 3 · 0 0

First thing, when men cheat they are sloppy so women find out whether it be the day after the next month or year, Women cheat also and get away with alot more, If you doubt him why stay in the relationship who wants to live life worrying about if their mate is cheating! So a man thinkest so he is!!!!

2007-04-29 16:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by senell32 1 · 0 0

Well first question answer: No not every man cheats
lets flip it to you does every woman cheat?

second question: you have to be strait up honest with him. tell him what you are seeing and how it makes you feel. Tell him you are worried about your relationship because of ____ , ____ , and _____ . that way he undestands what you are seeing.

And explain that if ever he thought about cheating on you. He might as well never come back. Because you are not gonna take it.

2007-04-29 16:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Andrew R 3 · 0 0

If he wants to know where you are at all the time, if he guards his cell phone with his life, if he is perpetually "working late' chances are he is cheating. I don't think EVERY man cheats but I do think most of them do. I work with 50 men and almost all of them are married and they have all made a pass at me or kissed me or tried to get into my pants on one occassion or another. Pigs all of them.

2007-04-29 16:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by CrazygirlDD 4 · 0 0

Does every cat have little wings and go "Coc-a-doodle-do"?

No every man does not cheat.

As for you real question, there is no real true way to know without asking him and actually getting the truth.... Or, walking in on him.

Try talking to him. Don't accuse him at first, but don't back down until you feel satisfied.

2007-04-29 16:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Ch4plain 2 · 0 0

U could hire some private detective, or u could just fallow the signs wich are strange phone calls , long time misses with no resonable explanation , avoiding u , ur eyes, he's getting pissed of from any silly thing, and a lot more of them.

2007-04-29 16:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by r!7u4l 2 · 0 0

no, not every man cheats...some men are all about their woman...but if you feel like he's cheating, than he may be...ask him certain questions and if he gets caught up then he's cheating!!!!

2007-04-29 16:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by only god can judge me 4 · 0 0

no not every man does, sounds like there is a trust issue u both need to sort that out or it will never work

2007-04-29 16:54:21 · answer #11 · answered by lizjess2000 4 · 0 0

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