How is pole dancing exploitative when the girls can earn in excess of £175,000 a year manipulating guys + keeping fit.
So much more fun doing it then brain dead boring repetitive work for peanuts kissing bosses ***.
Say in a call centre where every second you are monitored.
or stewarding or stacking shelves or even poor paid bar work typical of young people.
Why be in debt and having to pay for the gym when you can exercise all day, afford to eat healthy.
And lots of toys, clothes, cars etc.
or if your smart enough not to waste money or silly gold trinkets, drugs or drink or showing crap and invest it in a house in to years and then taking care of a pnesion and putting enough away to live of the interest from investments, cover uni costs and with house, pension, education all covered and paid for, plenty of savings and poss own business.
live a good life with lots of holidays etc.
if not hurting not immoral
If doing what want not dising self
2007-04-29
09:35:13
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Not getting exploited as its more a case of hypotising silly guys with more money then sense into handing over the contents of their wallet simply to see your butt and milk glands.
And you doing keep fit and flirting.
As said self respect is not letting others push you around.
Main thing is working someehere say with nice boss who looks after the girls with nice bouncers who look after you and wont push you into anything.
Examples Hugh Hefner, Peter Stringfellow etc.
you need the common sense that this wont last forever.
But you can use the money to avoid interest and debts from mortages, student, career and business loans.
And then use brains.
Plus as said you get to live dreams of travelling the worls and you can always workd on this whilst travelling...
1 1 day a month and the rest on the beach and sky diving etc.
whilst the poor boys have to work non stop in boring call centre or building work which is much riskier.
Plus helps pulling..
2007-04-29
09:40:18 ·
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Would I mind sister doing it?
No as long as safe and nice boss and happy (safe like any job)
would I loose respect for female mate?
No plus many girl mates went for things like wet t shirt coms or flashed boobs at gigs... sort of see it same way
What if it was my mum?
well shes too old now but when she was young? no would no matter be like if mum had been a model or sex symbol...
What if you found out girlfriend had been one...
again no issue.
if wife or girlfirned... may be a little jeaous... prob not... most likley cool as long as not doing the lap dancing... on stage fine.
It would not be as think disgusting or anything... can imagine just being a little jelous...
Maybe switch to making couple porn instead on the internet.
What some porn stars do...
2007-04-29
09:44:45 ·
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Would I mind sister doing it?
No as long as safe and nice boss and happy (safe like any job)
would I loose respect for female mate?
No plus many girl mates went for things like wet t shirt coms or flashed boobs at gigs... sort of see it same way
What if it was my mum?
well shes too old now but when she was young? no would no matter be like if mum had been a model or sex symbol...
What if you found out girlfriend had been one...
again no issue.
if wife or girlfirned... may be a little jeaous... prob not... most likley cool as long as not doing the lap dancing... on stage fine.
It would not be as think disgusting or anything... can imagine just being a little jelous...
Maybe switch to making couple porn instead on the internet.
What some porn stars do...
Its more a single persosn job.
Much like jobs where you are separate all the time
2007-04-29
09:45:25 ·
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Whats it to do with religion?
Well look at how relgions like chrisitinity and islam view sex especailly any sexaul activity for pleasure outside marriage as sin...
im saying its only sin if somone being bullied and Silver note all readdy beat you too the what if sister thing.
Bit of reality... guys see girls as sex objects, girls see blokes as sex objects.
If your parents did not see each other as sex objects then you would not be here and the human race would cease to exist.
Most humand however like to get to know, make friends or get close and loving with those they see as sexy.
Either chatting to the girls if both are relaxing and they know the girls not running up a meter.
and would prob say high with many simiply lonley guys looking for company or on birthday or bucks nights where its more of a laugh
2007-04-29
09:50:02 ·
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As said... beign seen as not stuff is not negative as most dont only see people as sex objects . but the equivalent of a mate with inbuilt Play stations and a Nintendo WII.
Ie a human with inbuilt fun bits
2007-04-29
09:51:32 ·
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As said... beign seen as not stuff is not negative as most dont only see people as sex objects . but the equivalent of a mate with inbuilt Play stations and a Nintendo WII.
Ie a human with inbuilt fun bits
2007-04-29
09:51:41 ·
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Why is it the religious would be the ones abusing the girls with their negative sterotypes calling them dirty, sinful, whores, etc.
In many countires like islamic ones the girls may be stoned to death or die in honour killings etc.
Thats the religious element
2007-04-29
09:53:12 ·
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Dave sin is witch burning, inquisitions, abusive kids homes and abusing gays
dancing and flirting is not a sin
2007-04-29
10:45:17 ·
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i agree
2007-04-29 09:38:22
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answered by theemadmonkey 4
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The problem is that they are both underage. Neither can make enough to support a child so ultimately the grandparents are going to have to do it. If the father's parents refuse then you will have to go to court. It depends on local laws. If the father has to some kind of job then he'll have to pay but it sure won't buy much. It's sad because her parents will have to raise the child because a 16 yr old can't. It's a terrible situation especially since birth control information is so available & getting it is so easy.
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answered by ? 3
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the porn industry and stripping is not exploitative. That's an argument people make when they're against it. In fact, most girls can earn more than anyone else when they're doing "adult" stuff like this. It's only exploitative when they're a sex slave that has no choice and they don't get paid or they are forced into the profession.
2007-04-29 09:39:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm right there with you. I danced before I joined the military, and making $500 a night was nothing, NOTHING! Like chump change. I worked at a respectable joint, and no man ever bothered me. They had a good time, and I had a good time entertaining them, and you make some good friends with the girls you work with.
2007-04-29 09:41:42
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answered by toedechameau 2
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You do what you like sweet heart. But you may want to consider what kind of future it holds for you. I hear about "putting money away" etc from these women often but seldom is that the reality.
Not that I really care what you do with your life, but you really seem to be trying overly hard to justify it. What's that old saying? "Me thinks thou protesth to much"
2007-04-29 09:41:24
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answered by Anonymous
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If the girls want to do it then let them do it. alot of dancers are usualy girls trying to pay there way through college. If its a safe place, where they arn't forced into anything, then why not.
2007-04-29 10:06:17
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answered by Bikerbabe 2
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Live and let live. How these women earn their money is up to them. They are not hurting anyone and they are choosing to do this job they are not being forced into it.
2007-04-29 09:43:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Power to the pole-dancers! It's (apparently) the new best way to keep fit!
2007-05-07 00:06:49
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answered by farmgirl_j_y2k 1
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Would you be happy if your girlfriend or sister did it? Loads of sleazy guys throwing money at your naked girlfriend/sister as she cavorts onstage?
There's your answer - it's not manipulative, but it reinforces negative stereotypes about women...but, hey, if you're happy for your sister/girlfriend to be thought of as nothing but a sex object then be my guest...
2007-04-29 09:42:26
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answered by Silver 2
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I don't care if they're dancers or brick layers- Poles shouldn't be in the UK taking our jobs.
2007-04-29 09:38:47
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answered by Anonymous
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*starts looking around for the nearest greased pole*
2007-04-29 09:39:50
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answered by I WALK FUNNY 1
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