Mistake of letting him call here last thursday to collect a DvD. He was just acting like nothing happened and trying to kiss me etc. I foolishly responded and he thinks its all Ok. I am regretting it now and he is just back to the same old ways. I need to be strong and tell him but he is not giving up! please help how should I deal with this!!
2007-04-29 09:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You either accept what he has done and be a doormat, or tell him to push off once and for all.
Cheating !! why would you still want to sleep with him ? just imagine him with another women keep that in your mind and kick him to the gutter (not literally).
Keep strong
2007-04-29 09:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by bambam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself: Be strong and tell him!
Here are the words I suggest: "We are still broken up. Kissing you was a mistake. I can't trust you, and I can't be with you if I can't trust you. I'm sorry, I won't let it happen again. Please have a good life."
Then run away. Or shut the door/hang up the phone... disconnect in some way. He's SO not worth it.
2007-04-29 16:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by Callisto 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a big favor & dump him for the second & very last time. He wants his cake & eat it too, & you're letting him have it that way, if you continue to succumb to weakness, when he's around. Tell him not to call you or come over & mean it. Once he knows you mean business, he'll back off.
2007-04-29 16:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So he screwed around on you, sharing isnt so bad is it?This is the attitude you need to take if youre going to be wek otherwise get a backbone and get your hormones in check and if you live at home tell your mom and dad not to allow you to date until youre 18.
2007-04-29 16:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you were horny and that's all it was. Say you didn't feel like going out to find someone to have sex with,and that was the only reason you let him come over.
2007-04-29 16:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to make up your mind and stick with whatever you decide to do. You can't send mixed signals and expect him to know what you want.
2007-04-29 16:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by charliecizarny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you're through! i hate guys who cheat. they're loser pervs. be firm and tell him that it's over, otherwise there's a big chance that history would repeat itself
2007-04-29 16:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by L. Marie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that everything is not okay....never accept a cheating guy...they're the worst
2007-04-29 16:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by hannah f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him again and this time dont talk to him anymore for reals
2007-04-29 16:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by lady26 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋