Me and my gf have been going out over 8 months now and we had like only 3 arguements ever, but recently shes seems wierd, even tho she never really called/texted me (she did a lil bit) its like she stopped, and we arnt seeing each other as much as we did before (i know there are some reasons y like school and stuff) but lately its like very hard to please her and to have fun with her, yesterday we just sat there and said "what do you wanna do?" about 54 times each. I offered almost 6 different things to do cuz it was a nice day, but it was "no i dont wanna do that" and "i dont like that" and she either couldnt or didnt want to come up with anything. We eventually went to eat but it was like hell b4 that, she was all pissy. So i dunno what to do, and when i try to talk to her, and ask her whats wrong she says nothing. Nothing has ever been a problem between us. I dunno what to do, and im afraid not like talking to her for a while could spark a breakup with my luck
2007-04-29 08:59:57 · 11 answers · asked by erickostonmg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some girls go through hard times and have bad weeks or whatever, just let her cool down and give her a chance.
2007-04-29 09:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by sillygirl227 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just talk to her about the way you feel. The worst thing to do is try to figure out your two's relationship by yourself. Dont ask her if there is something wrong because women expect you to know sometimes, and no that isnt a sexist comment. Just sit her down and let her know that you have been feeling distant from her and ask her if there is something that you can do to be apart of her life again, because you feel as if you are not. Let her know that you want to stay together and are willing to do anything to do so.
2007-04-29 16:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by Brian S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it actuallysounds to me like she doesn't want to do anything...isit possible your relationship has come to an end? Is she no longer interested in you? I think that you need to plan a place for you to be together without distractions and let her know how you feel and what you've noticed. Ifthis conversation results in a breakup then it was inevitable. If she cares for you she will ell you why she has been behaving like she has...it may be just something small that needed to be talked about. Good luck....communication is definitely the key to a happy, healthy relationship.
2007-04-29 16:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Corey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor boy.
I don't know what to say. Is there anything I can say without knowing her?
Maybe give it some time and see what happens. If she breaks up you, is it really such a bad thing? Now you've had practice, and you can definitely rule her off the list of soulmates. It's a big list, good to get people ticked off early lol.
On the other hand, maybe it's totally unrelated and she'll come back soon?
I really don't know... But good luck!
2007-04-29 16:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Callisto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't keep asking her whats wrong because thats just being needy.Would you like it if she kept asking you whats wrong, eventually your going to get annoyed. And don't say sorry either ever. Just relax and don't ask for her approval about something you want to go to together. Just say we are going to do this and she has no say in the matter, but make sure what ever you do is fun or something you can both share and remember; perhaps surprise her at last minute like base jumping, well maybe not that extreme.
2007-04-29 16:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by giles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are getting used to each other. She's getting upset because she likes the changes and the newness of having aboyfriend. Now, it's getting 'old' and it's not so fun for her. You either have to talk to each other, to rekindle that happiness, or let go and move on to other people. No need to have one girlfriend for the rest of your life. Enjoy everyone.
2007-04-29 16:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This same thing happened to me. Your girlfriend, no offfense, is losing interest in you. Do something to make her love you again. Do something so awesome for her. Schedule a day where it will be only you and her. Tell her that ya'll can do whatever she wants. If that doesn't work, move on like she has. You can always find another.
2007-04-29 16:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by littlered579 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan out something romantic. Depending on the kind of girl, the type of event. Set aside a day and make her promise to hang out with you that day and tell her it's a surprise. Just spoil her for a day. That should get her smiling and giggly like we girls are.
2007-04-29 16:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might mean thats she likes a- nother guy or doesnt like u anymore and just dont know how 2 tell u. or some one in here famly doesnt like u and wants u 2 break up.try talking 2 her say whats up? if she says nothing say u arnt u self laty??? come on!
and just try that hope this helps!
2007-04-29 16:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by rathbart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly she is being a Female - nothing out of the ordinary.
2007-04-29 16:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by art_flood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋