At first he kept calling with nastyness in his voice about material things that i had taken when we split but now he is calling saying if this happened we wouldnt have split and stuff like that, also saying his life is pants. should i not answer or should i chat with him, sounds like he is pretty low even though he has bought it on himself!
2007-04-29 08:41:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldnt talk to him. If hes gonna be a jerk about yall breaking up, he doesnt deserve to talk to you. He should move on because its his own damn fault.
2007-04-29 08:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by yuppers. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't going to care why he is phoning you. He's a loser with nothing better to do than call and bother you. Leave him as an EX, don't talk to him, don't answer the phone, don't return his phone calls, get a new phone number, get an unlisted phone number. No current or future boy friend of any worth is going to want you to talk to an EX. Make the movie and really break away from this creep.
2007-04-29 08:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember to treat him like you want to be treated. But at the same time if he's begging for you back think about why you broke up with him in the first place and if you truly believe that what you did was right, then tell him to stop calling because you're moving on and so should he. You don't need to be treated like some property or like a slave or dog, you deserve the best and shouldn't settle for anything less.
2007-04-29 08:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by missattractive1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't answer him. I have a child with my ex, and she called everyday for 2 years after we divorced. Because I had a child with her, she knew I would answer, and of course like an idiot I did. One month she ran my phone bill over 200.00 dollars. That was pleasing to her. So I told her not to call if it wasn't about my son. She didn't listen. Now 4 years later, she still calls. But now my son is 7 and if she is on the other line I hang up. And of course she calls back again and again. If it is him, I talk, her I hang up. Please learn from my mistake and don't answer him. Its not worth the trouble it brings.
2007-04-29 08:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by mykd4sound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tel him that now you are no longer together there is no need for him to ring you, don't feel sorry for him as there must of been a reason why you split in the first place. be strong and you will meet someone special in the future who will treat you right. change your phone number if he is still phoning you after you have asked him not too.
2007-04-29 08:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by purplefluffyalien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him. He has tried being nasty to you and it hasn't worked. Now he is trying the pathetic bit - poor old me etc. I don't know the history - if he hadn't treated you well in the past and you finished with him - he probably can't believe that you actually finally finished with him - that's the male ego for you. I predict his next plan is to start crying - that's what they usually do. Just don't bother answering the phone to him.
2007-04-29 08:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Bexs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is feeling bad, and looking to you to make him feel better, and express sympathy for him. The decision to talk to him is up to you. For me personally, i've found that when my ex's call, somehow I end up getting sucked back into talking to them regularly again, and after awhile, I am reminded of just why we broke up in the first place.
2007-04-29 08:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even talk to him. If you have to you might think about getting an unlisted phone #. You need to move on with your life & you can't while he is pulling you back into his. Pull the plug on him.
2007-04-29 08:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by Joe S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he's in the first stage of 'break-up' even if you give back his stuff he'll call. he's lonely but once he starts dating again he'll stop calling all together. you can change your number or just keep it short and tell him you got to go out w family, friends, work, whatever... just dont stay on long, just enough so he gets it:)
2007-04-29 08:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to respond to him. Believe me he wont just stop on his own. Just let him know that it is over and that you want to be friends with him and if he keeps this up it is going to drive you out of his life completely and that if he wants that, all he has to do is ask.
2007-04-29 09:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Brian S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋