How can I keep my faith in God?

Question

Last year my fiance' and I unexpectantly got pregnant. I was overly joyed because i thought that I could never get pregnant. Then on June 24 I went into preterm labor and she died because she was at the viable state yet. This was reallly hard to deal with but with prayer and faith that we would have another child I got thru it.. We did get pregnant 3 months later. We had a lot of complications but everthing got fixed and we were in for the count down. Last Thursday the baby was kicking and moving.. Friday Morning I noticed that he was not moving.. This was because he had died that morning. I feel like this is so unfair.. I don't know what to do or think.. And it was because he had a blood clot in his cord..I can only shake my head because. I am still in disbeliefe.. What can I do?

Answer 1

Keep praying and I will also pray for you as well.

Answer 2

You might try to change your lifestyle.

You both might try to lead a simpler and healthier life. How? Good possibly unsophisticated food, lots of fresh air and sunshine, lots of walking or biking or riding near the sea or lake, walking together with friends in the countryside or on mountain paths, enjoying beautiful landscapes. And so running, chasing each other, perspiring, getting more and more excited. You might try to find ways of freely enjoying together the natural scents and colors of life.

Prayers are good, but they may not help much because they oftenmost are something passive, just pious imploring words or thoughts, while healthy life needs movement as it is dynamic, fiercy, fighting, pulsating, throbbing.

And so you might try "not to be in a hurry now" about trying to conceive a baby. It should be so that getting babies should not always be programmed, not be "routine", but a daring adventure of life at a moment when bodily ressources are very enhanced, when the utmost seducing glow of healthy life can be seen in one's eyes and in one's skin, because that may mean that "the right hormones" also are urgingly there ready to initiate the great new life-adventure. Then the new baby may be healthy and so come healthily into the world.

Good luck!

Answer 3

I think you better do some fasting and prayer and really seek his answer but remember what Job said when he had lost all of his children. "The Lord gives and the Lord has taken away, blessed be the name of the Lord'! He does for a reason and sometimes its hard to figure out if at all so keep your faith and know that your young ones are with him and he is enjoying them greatly. Please morn the loss and praise his name! You are the one who becomes pregnant not your husband so don't sound like a feminist who is carnal minded! GOD does not like feminist and it is permeating today's society in so much that it looks and sounds normal and it is despised by GOD just like homosexuality and many more things and today it is excepted as normal. Beware of the lies and the trickery of the world which is satins domain.

Answer 4

Sorry, I told you I'd be looking for Bridget's testimony on the internet because I thought it might give you hope. It's not there yet. You are not alone people like Bridget have gone through similar situations. I know it was very hard for her and she has struggled with her faith because of this sometimes, too. But in the end her faith has grown stronger through all of this. She was victorious. In the end it was faith with works (prayer and a dietary change) that has helped her. And I hope and pray that God will help you, too.

Answer 5

Miscarriages are common in my family and it also worries me about my future. My suggestion is get a really good doctor and do anything and everything you can to bring the baby to term. None of this is your fault. as for a higher power being responsible. There could be many possibilities for why you miscarried maybe he felt you weren't ready, or that the soul of your son or daughter wasn't ready to be born into this world or that the body wasn't right for him/her or the timing wasn't right. We can't and probably never will understand what God's intentions or plan is. And remember you are not alone many women have miscarriages the important thing is to keep trying. my mother alone had several miscarriages:
1: miscarriage
2: my brother
3, 4, & 5: still born triplets
6 & 7 sister and miscarried twin
8: me
9 & 10 sister and miscarried twin.
remember you are not alone and I truly believe that one day you will have a child.

Answer 6

Hi voiceofapoet. The loss of a newborn child is a terrible thing to endure, I'm sure your words cannot express the pain you are feeling. My prayers are with you.

My question to you is why are you trying to have a child out of wedlock? You have had 2 miscarriages with this guy and you still are not married. My advice is to dump him. He seems more than willing to get you pregnant and not marry you. You should leave him and do not have sex with anyone until you are married.

Answer 7

Well in my own personal experience, I wish I never had kids. Not that I don't love them,but because the way this world is going down hill so fast. I think about them growing up in this world that keeps getting colder and colder and wish I never brought the little sweethearts into this mess. that is just my opinion on the subject. Take care and may God bless you spiritually.

Answer 8

Pray sweetie, just pray. Everything happens for a reason, even when it hurts. You were blessed to be able to celebrate a life within you, even for a short time. You felt that life, even for a short time. Your sweet little ones did exactly what Jesus did. They died but now they are in Heaven with God and Jesus. Think about the joy you were able to experience when you felt what Mary felt, a life inside you. She lost her baby too. It may sound strange but I would love to experience what you have. I tried so hard and could not become pregnant at all. No little kicks and moments. No feelings of love and joy. You have been blessed with life, even for a short time. Be glad and grateful for that short period of joy. It is more than some are able to feel. Keep your faith sweetie, please. It is all we have sometimes. Know that God loves you without question. And your big brother, Jesus loves you, without question. Sometimes we have to be quiet and do as we are told, just as Jesus asked God if He could pass the cup and save Him from cruxifiction and death. Jesus' sweat fell like blood He prayed so hard to be saved by His Father from death. But God say, "No". So sweetie, please know that God knows what is best for us and He will love, guide and protect us forever. Don't give up. God has a plan for you, He does.
I will pray for you sweetie. Be strong, Jesus is with you. I am sorry for your loss but I am glad your little ones are with Our Father. They are safe and happy with Our big brother Jesus. If it be God's Will, you will be a mother in one way or another. God Bless You and Yours.

Answer 9

WOW sweetie my prayers go out to you and your family. That is so hard. I am so sorry..I sometimes have no idea why God allows things to occur so horrible as this. Just trust in him and pray don't lose your faith. I know it may sound unkind but alot of people on here will tell you to lose your faith don't give in.. God has a reason for all he does, thought it may seem horrible there is a reason that is where faith comes in, continue in prayer..I am so sorry fo your loses..
But God can restore to you what he taken remember that always ...God bless

Answer 10

Good Lord. I am so sorry that you have had these tragedies. I know that you are devastated and are certainly wondering why this happened to you and your family. Truly, my heart goes out to you. Know that G-d never give us more than we can handle. You have family around you for support, please recognize that. You do not have to mourn in solitude, you have people who love you and will support you. I wish I could tell you something that would surely have all of this make sense, but that's impossible, and I wouldn't want you to think I was patronizing you. Just know that you are strong, and when ever you feel weak, there will be a shoulder for you to lean on. When you stumble, there will be support for you. This is not something you are required to "get over" any time soon. Be strong and don't lose your faith.

Answer 11

once I found out (i'm nonetheless discovering it) that faith is grown in trials and renounce to God, and accepting each thing that comprises me as for my good. it is been greater handy to flow by using problems, or perhaps to receive them with exhilaration. A learn of Hebrews the e book of religion has been an incredible element for me. "The Christian could desire to examine and seek the Scriptures to advance his awareness. For this objective he on an universal basis reads a variety of of appropriate parts. yet he reads the Scriptures additionally to reinforce his faith. And to this end he could desire to take one or 2 verses to lead them to the undertaking of particular mirrored image, and to perfect them trustfully for himself. Pray, do no longer go through yourselves to be led off beam via people who talk as though faith have been something great and unintelligible. faith isn't something different than the shown fact that God speaks actuality. Take some can provide of God and say to Him: i be attentive to for particular that this promise is actuality, and which you will fulfill it. he will do it. by no skill mourn over unbelief as though it have been in straightforward terms a weak point which you would be able to't help. As God's toddler, in spite of the shown fact that vulnerable you are going to be, you have the means to have self assurance, for the spirit of God is in you. you have in straightforward terms to recollect this: no person apprehends something in the previous that he has the means to have self assurance; he could desire to easily start up and proceed with asserting to the Lord that he's for particular that His word is actuality. He could desire to hold quickly the promise and depend upon God for the success." —New existence, The Andrew Murray