Just wondering how long you should wait until you actually say it when you're in a relationship.
2007-04-29 03:42:24 · 35 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love takes a long time to develop. If you are saying it early, then it isn't love.
2007-04-29 03:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
when you are passed the hot and heavy phase. In the beginning your endorphins are so high that nothing can go wrong you feel wonderful but this is not really love. Once you come off this a bit then you can realize if you still like the person or maybe at that time they will start to be annoying from that point you can decide if you love them or not.
2007-04-29 03:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by frank_d22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love him? Are you truly in love? If so you should tell him, if he isn't feeling the same, it's better to be to open now than later. You should be able to talk to each other about anything, and if you can't than I would think that something is wrong. When you are in love (both) of you, you can tell each other anything and that being one of them. After all that is what makes a good relationship. You should be allowed to express your feelings without being uncomfortable.
2007-04-29 03:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by BuLlY LoVeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think about 3 or 4 months on average, it takes thus long to form a significant attachement, anything else - though powerful - is still infatutaion with learning about said love-interest. Enjoy this stage, and move on to the next given time.
2007-04-29 03:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by SiSi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are sure the other person feels the same.
If you say it too early then it can cause problems. Either the other person won't say it back, or they might start saying it out of obligation.
If you have to ask.
Wait.
2007-04-29 03:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no timing rules here.. but say I love u after u are very sure that u love him.. and u r sure that it isn't merely infatuation or lust... wait till u see him in different situations and know for sure about his background... at least wait till more than 3 months.. take ur time.. saying i love u isn't the most important part of the relationship.. goodluck..
2007-04-29 03:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you having been seeing the person at least 4 to 5 months. To say it any earlier, it is probably infatuation.
2007-04-29 03:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you A) Feel you love the person and B) are comfortable with your relationship
2007-04-29 03:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by ratrace667 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until it can't stay within you anymore ! When it feels like it should be said ,then wait till it is going to make you burst inside because if it was meant to be said then that way you'll know.
2007-04-29 03:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by robrodman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it's true i gues.... I said it when drunk (oops) but hey, she said it back. As long as the feeling is there then you can't put a time limit on it!
Don't say it if it's only been a week or something tho- that'll just freak 'em out, and it can't be true anyway.
2007-04-29 03:47:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really can't say when is the right time. But you reminded me of a song. Then I had to go and spoil it all by saying something stupid, like " I love You "
2007-04-29 03:49:10 · answer #11 · answered by asmikeocsit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋