Can one were a PLATED tuxedo shirt with a regular black tie?

Question

(Lay down collar)

Answer 1

When you wear a tux, you go for the complete look, otherwise leave it alone and just go for a regular suit .


Fromhttp://www.dressingwell.com/tuxrel.htm
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* Wear either braces, a vest or a cummerbund — never a cummerbund and braces at the same time.
* Own both a vest and/or cummerbund and braces. Women change their formal dress all the time. Why not alter your look too?
* Vests can vary in pattern and color, allowing you to express the different facets of your personality.
* The addition of a pocket square adds to the elegance of any tuxedo.
* A hand-tied bow tie is your most sophisticated option. There is no mistaking the difference of a hand-tied bow tie over a pre-tied one.
* Your bow tie and cummerbund do not have to match. If they don't, one or the other should be in a solid color.
* Wear silk socks with formal wear. Heavy socks are not appropriate. And, as always, wear socks that are calf or knee high. Skin showing when you cross your legs negates class from even the most elegantly tailor-made tuxedo.
* Your shoes should be unencumbered. Wear plain leather footwear, free of tassels or ornate stitching. If your personality allows, a pair of patent leather shoes makes a nice finishing touch.
* Traditional tuxedos are always correct, but the more fashion-forward gentleman will find cutting-edge attire with velvet, three buttons, and rich colors — not recommended for men who buy a tuxedo every ten years or more. Four-stud shirts are becoming more commonplace and best for anyone who wears a cummerbund rather than a vest.

Answer 2

I think the gangster issue can be addressed in the cut of the tux and shirt/tie involved. Think Cary Grant. If you went with the standard "prom" look, it might be weird. I'd definitely avoid a bow tie with that color scheme. I don't think there are any rules against it, but I'm not catholic. I had my maids wear black and even encouraged the guests to wear black (no, I'm not Emo or Goth) and the wedding was absolutely gorgeous. It had a very formal feel without being stuffy (we were on the lawn at a five star resort). I say, throw him this bone if you think it won't ruin your pics. If it will ruin your wedding pictures, then maybe bribe him with something else. :o) The pics are all you have left after the big day, and everyone will want to see them.

Answer 3

I wore one once and got kicked out of church.
Of course I wasn't wearing pants but I thought God already knew what I looked like bare butt.

Answer 4

Who cares? Wear whatever you like.

Answer 5

By "regular" tie, do you mean necktie? If so, the answer is no.

Answer 6

It wouldn't look right.