....to not start a relationship. How far is considered long distance. And if you live far away does that give you the right to cheat (as long as your other half doesn't know its in different area codes). Let me know your views please
2007-04-28 23:27:25 · 11 answers · asked by Darkchild 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How far is too far, is two hours away considered long distance????
2007-04-28 23:46:14 · update #1
Most folks would be put off by the long distance thing. It's hard to get close to someone so far away. Depends on how badly both sides want it to work.
And no excuse (different area codes blah blah) can justify cheating!!!
2007-04-28 23:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, long distance has never been a problem.
My boyfriend lives a 2 hour car ride away from me (although when I take the train to see him, it takes almost 4 hours!). We've been together for 3 years, so I think it can work very well!
Long distance, I would say, is anything over an hour and a half, or two hours.
And NO! Being long distance doesn't give anyone a right to cheat. Who cares if the partner doesn't know?? That's not the point, is it! Cheating is still cheating!
In fact, nothing gives anyone the right to cheat.....
2007-04-29 00:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sparklepop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance for a pilot is less than a man in a wheelchair. But the distance is not as important as the frequency with which you see the other half. You can love someone with a deep passion but they will meet other people where they are (as you will) and a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush as the saying goes. So my advice is forget it unless it is short term (less than 6 months) and if you or your other half are even thinking of cheating then neither of you are worth having a relationship with.
2007-04-28 23:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by pwwatson8888 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tricky one,I'd say it depends on how often would the lovers be able to see each other,is there any hope they'll be able to live together sooner or later?As for cheating that's really really bad,one shouldn't start a relationship with the back thought of possibly cheating,it's not about seeing life through pink glasses but cheating means you don't value the relationship you're in and are ready to screw it just for the sake of sexual gratification,ultimately it can even harm your self-esteem whether you're the cheater or the cuckolded one.
2007-04-28 23:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by valerie_adele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt give you the right to cheat, if you want an open relationship then it should be consented by both you and your partner, im in a long distance relationship, we love it and hate it at the same time, because we get our own space, but we miss each other, but they do say absence makes the heart grow fonder, so wen we see each other its great, and relationship can work depening on how much work your willing to put in and how much your willing to compramise...
Oh and me and my guy live about a 1hr and a half cars journey away from each other.
good luck
2007-04-29 00:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by ladee_in_luv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, It does not give us the right to cheat becoz we have to be faithful as we wish the other half should be to us!
But unfortunately, on earth where we are living it's hard to find such a relation, I don't wanna say that it never worked, it did for sure one in a million U can find such a relation, but it's so hard to find such a relation on the earth now A days ..He or she will be living next door & the other half can't make sure that she or he not cheating. It's hard to trust when you can't make sure what is going on while you are apsent, isn't !
So why to put your self in such a relation, how can you make sure that he or she does not have the same kind of relation with another one in another distance !!!!
2007-04-29 00:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a long distance relation ship for a full year and I am telling you now that emails are deffently not enouff. If you can call at some point in the day. Also letters in the mail are pretty nice too.
2016-05-21 05:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the furthest i dated was someone who lived in Maryland. I also dated someone lliving in France once... i wouldnt recommend a long distance r'ship to be honest, they are very frustrating.
And you dont get to experience the sharing of each others company which is very important in determining whether the r'ship will ultimately work or not.
in answer to your second question, i would not consider someone who lived 2 hours away a problem at all. To me thats not far enough to be called long distance (my husband works in Ealing and sometimes it takes him almost 2 hours to get home from work!!)
2007-04-28 23:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived 1 hour 65miles from a guy I WAS seeing and it never worked hence WAS, he didnt trust me and I didnt trust him. And when I needed a cuddle I couldnt have one it was just a silly arrangement, shame as we got on so well.
2007-04-29 02:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by Bonnie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it never works,its never ok to cheat
2007-04-28 23:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋