love??????????

Question

okay so me and my bf have been goin out for 2 months.. and he told me he loved me...and i think i love him.. is it to soon?
how long did you and your gf/bf go out before you guys started sayen that you loved eachother?
how do you know when your in love?

Answer 1

well love can be different for everyone. to answer you first question it depends how long you have KNOWN eachother. if you've known eachother since you were kids thats one thing but if youve only known eachother for 2 months thats another thing. so i dont know if its too soon or not, it depends on how you actually feel about him.
for your second question, me and my bf have said we love eachother BEFORE we started going out cuz we have known eachother for ... what seems like forever! but that was because we were both too young to be dating. so there really isnt any specific amount of time needed untill you can start loving a person.
and for your third question, its different for everyone! for me i feel like i'm gonna throw up when i think about anything bad that could happen to us, i get this feeling deep inside that my life is amazing and i wouldnt change it for the world when he smiles, and i'm pretty much in sync with him! i cry when he does, i smile when he does, and so on. but as i said its different for everyone, take mi friend for example; when she loves someone she begins to get her voice and speak up, and she will NEVER stop smiling. so yeah i know you hear this a lot but you know it when your in love! but basically you'll feel the best you ever have! its great!

Answer 2

It depends on the situation. I think you really have to know the person you're dating to be in love with them. I had a bad experiences where I wasn't in love, and I said I was, and basically played along for 20 months. I liked him a lot, but i didn't love him. You have to be realistic about it... that's all. There isn't really a time limit, but I dated him for 10 months when he said he loved me. Make sure it's the real thing before you say it. Does he still make you get butterflies in your stomach? Is he excited to be around? Do you ever catch him looking up other girls? Do you guys have at least a couple of the same interests? Are you intrigued by him? Do you think about him when you're not with him? All very important questions to ask. Don't feel forced into giving an answer. It came back to bite me in the end. Love is a really strong word. You can just like him and not love him. Age isn't an issue. You could be in love at 12 or 81... just make sure its real before you say it.

Answer 3

well, me and my bf have been going out for 2 years, we have our ups and downs but by the end of the first year we told eachother we loved one another, it took us a while for our love to grow so you should wait, but if you truly mean what you say, then go for it tell him you love him. if you are uncertain then wait no one is pressuring you, and if he is presurring you then well he doesn't mean it but if he meant it he'll wait, even if it's two years later, the time will come. when you know your in love, you feel it deep in your heart, love isn't when you are unsure, or still thinking about it, love happens, and if you realy liked this dude even for two months, but your realy certain you do, then well that answers your question, if you love being with him, miss him 5 minutes later when he is gone, and is always with him, you love him. and if you guys trust eachother and don't get jealous no matter what happens, and respect eachother, there's another answer. so don't just think you love him, you should know you love him.
so be happy, have fun, and have a great day, hope my answer helps!!!!=)

sincerly,
ttlycute426

Answer 4

When you are in love you KNOW. For some it feels like you can't breathe, you get butterflies in your stomach, your day brightens just by thinking of that person. But for others it is a comfortable feeling, a feeling of safety and security that builds, along with the rush of passion, interest, respect, trust, and communication. The best kind of love is when you feel all of the above.
If you THINK you love him then you aren't actually in love yet, but maybe on the way there.
I don't think love has a timetable. For some it takes months, even years before they realize they are in love with someone, and for others the feel it instantaneously.
When you are in love that person is in the back of your mind, consuming your thoughts, all the time; his/her happiness is your primary thought; you feel connected to that person, you want to know everything you can about the person, sometimes you even wish you could crawl inside the person's mind so you could learn all there is to learn about him/her. You can't imagine your life without that person. And you'd climb mountains (metaphorically), relocate, improve bad habits, and support and comfort that person no matter what. You want to be with that person and only that person.

Answer 5

Me and mah b/f b33n 2 gether 4 a year and he told mii dat he wanted 2 get no mii but u no all boi are different and if yall only b33n 2 gether 4 2mounth and he tell he lov3 u if he's wit u all da time and he call u all da time if he goes wit insteed of his freinds and he dose he can 4 u den he porbaly dose love u if he dont show anthing like dat den he jist tryin 2 get hime sum he jist tryin 2 make u fall 4 dem lov3in word dat ain't lov3

Answer 6

considering that a lengthy time period in the past, human beings have hunted for the that technique of affection. yet even the finished philosophers, with their profound definitions, might want to not totally contact its real essence. In a survey of four-8 12 months olds, youngsters percentage their perspectives on love.

Answer 7

I want even dating my boyfriend at the time. it was 2 weeks before we started dating and we have been dating a year and 2 months.

Answer 8

it was was like two months before i said it we started talking 2 years after school though. but some people still dont understand thetrue meaningof the word love. because it is overlasting love dont go away. i think it would be a LIKE you know?

Answer 9

There's no set time. My boyfriend and i started met, went to my room to make out, started dating, and said I love you all in one day. Now we say it everyday.
It's not too soon.
When you love someone, you know. There's no scientific formula, you just know deep down that that person completes your heart.

Answer 10

there is no timetable in love. if it's there, it's there. it can be days, months or even years. when to know when you're in love??? -- you just know. he makes your heart beat, you are happy when you're with him, you're at yourself, you miss him when he's not around, you long to be with him everyday, and you are willing to do everything that pleases him.

love is sometimes mysterious, it just comes (and goes) without you having to explain or figure out when and how it happened.