Other ways to meet women besides bars?

Question

I went to a bar and all the women were so drunk they were acting really shallow and stupid...kind of a turn-off. How did you meet your special someone, if not in a bar?

Answer 1

Women are everywhere, just talk to them, be friendly, treat them as you would like to be treated by one of them, pretty soon you will know many, most may not like you, some may avoid you, others may become your friend, and others may even chase and stalk you.

I don't believe you can meet your special someone at a bar, and possibly those shallow, and stupid women you met there were not acting. alcohol only makes a person to loose there inhibitions, then there true colors show.

once you find your woman your like will never again be your own, so be prepared to share.

Answer 2

First off, I highly doubt ALL the women were acting shallow and stupid.
Number one, not that you did, but never go to a bar with the intention of meeting women. Women will read that kind of information right off your face and you'll come off poorly. Also, it's all too common an opinion that bars are not the place to go, for a reason. People are bound to have lowered inhibitions in an alchoholic environment. Worst case senario, meeting the right girl at the wrong time.
Two, try online dating. You can easily screen people who, for the most part, happen to be in the same frame of mind as you are. Serious about getting serious.
Three... Use your friends for more than just moving men. Use them to tell you about their girlfriends friends, their co-workers, be careful with the sister thing though.
And maybe something else to consider, avidly participate in social settings. Your weekly visits to the gym, a friends wedding, heading to the bookstore, can all be apt places tomeet your someone.
Oh and be yourself.
Good Luck!

Answer 3

I've met most of the women that I've dated through work/school or other activities. I met a real cutie in a tennis class and that led to a nice relationship. I joined a local service group and met another woman through that.

Blind dates and Internet personals account for the other women I've dated.

My suggestion is to find activities that you enjoy where you might meet women. If you are having a good time doing something, that will make you more attractive to women - plus you will have something in common.

Answer 4

in my opinion (no offense intended) i have allways kind of seen bars as the shallowest place to meet people in the first place since half the time you guys arent really 100% sober and or definately not 100% paying attention to whats going on around them. but bars can be fun places too. but for the most part i would expect to meet special someone's in almost any place like at school or at your work or believe it or not, just going out to eat at a resuraunt. when i worked at a dennys i couldnt even count all the phone numbers i found left on my tables next to the tip and even though i rarely called them back because i had my eyes on another, it was still amazing how pretty and how sweet some of the ladies i spoke with were! so many people have brushed aside the whole random encounter scenario because they think it will never happen it only happens on tv and such, but it actually does happen alot more often than just in movies. you just have to be more open-minded to the world around you. see the girl behind the counter as more than just an employee but as a person with feelings and thoughts that you just might be interested in getting to know:) and of course there is the internet... oh how easy finding girls on internet is, its getting them to tell you the truth BEFORe you meet them thats allways the hard part with these online dating sites. =p but anyways my main advice is just to not look for girls in the bar but rather look for girls in the same places you would look for friends, because thats the kind of person you would want as your girlfriend right?

Answer 5

I am going to tell you the truth. Only shallow women (aka losers) hang out in bars. A bar is no place to meet someone "special" for a meaningful relationship. Live is not a bar. Go do in your life things that you are interested in and approach women who are doing what you enjoy out to a movie, lunch, dinner, for a walk, to go shopping, etc. Take a class in something you have passion for such as stamp collecting, ham radio, yoga, book club, computer programming, etc. Stay away from the bars.

Answer 6

I met my husband at work. You can meet people anywhere the bar is more of just a one night hook up place.

Answer 7

online.
Lots of choices, people who are also looking for another person, their goals and philosophy on life is usually listed on their profile so you can see if they match your life before you even contact them, and you can also look at pictures of them if that's what you want. Once you meet them it requires more time then regular dating, since you have no background on them (like family, coworkers, friends or aquaintances).

Answer 8

the best way is to drive around in your car.. and have a big rubber dildo hang out the window.. after a few blocks you will see a crowd of women running behind your car.. you can take your pick of wich women you are interested in..

Answer 9

At the car wash, the kind where you have to wait for your car to be wiped dry. Find one that's REALLY busy. That way you can also check out what kind of car they drive (and vice versa), which can give you a lot to talk about right off the bat.

Answer 10

bars are the worst. Take your dog to the park and show it off,dont have one thats ok , carry a leash and ask any cutie if she has seen your beagle. Good luck