2007-04-28 19:32:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
Sounds good - but then you have to come down to reality eventually, and with a hangover too?
2007-04-28 19:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh Solly...I wish there was an answer to this question. I can feel your pain. When will it end, when will you feel better, why can't you move on, why does she want to give up when you feel like you could still work things out. Why won't she talk to you, open up and tell you what's wrong so that you can fix it? Why is she the one who thinks she's hurt when she chose to end it? When did she let it go and why didn't she tell you then?
The worst part is, why should you even care when she has been dealing so much hurt? But you do.
How do you go on being a single when its been a double act for so long. Maybe more if there are kids involved. Makes it even tougher when you have been part of a group and the lead vocalist decides to take the whole band with her, leaving the lead guitarist to pick his way through the mess and try to go it alone. You want to form a whole new band, but its tough to find compatible musicians who know your strengths and weaknesses and can play to them. Who know the rhythm of your songs and can be completely harmonious and in sync with you. You may have to march to the beat of a different drum, my friend.
You are doing all right. You have come home limping and aching. Give it a bit of time and you will get better. It won't always hurt like this. It does get less with time.
Try to figure out what went wrong, what you have learned from all this and where that might prove to be a weak point so that you can pinpoint it before it gets out of hand the next go 'round. Otherwise it may occur with the next relationship. Acknowledge your part in this. It was a duo, that means there are two sides to consider. It is easy to see their part, but what was your role in all of this and what can you do to prevent that from happening again. It will even help to acknowledge it with her. You would be surprised at the response that generates from women. Security is our big gig.
K, sessions up, time to buy me another! *rattles ice in glass*
2007-04-29 00:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by The Y!ABut 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Omit the lime and the club soda
2007-04-28 20:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A nice meal with a good friend who is a good listener and cares about you.
Get dressed up and feel good about yourself. And do it now. Don't wait till all the Kleenex are gone and you've forgotten whether its day or night.
Another remedy that has been successful for me when I have been in the dumps is to do something nice for someone else. It takes your mind off the situation and makes you feel good that you have helped someone else.
Breaking up is hard for anyone. Good luck.
2007-04-28 19:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you male or female? Well it does not matter. I am a female, married,happy, and love my wonderful man! what is ya'lls problem? Yes I am from the deep south. And I want to help anyone I can. Please tell me your probelm. How can I get you my e-mail? I talked to a person last week that was ready to commit suicide and I hope I did some good. I have not heard anything, gave them my e-mail.!!!!
2007-04-28 19:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by p_passons 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eat messy buffalo wings while drinking it and watch NASCAR. Do all the stuff she wouldn't do or complained about. Get rid of her stuff still hanging around your apartment and car. Call your guy friends and go out for a beer with them and to an action flick. Go for a run. Listen to music you like. ROAD TRIP!
2007-05-04 06:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by chattygirlchild 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bourbon, ice, a large glass, a good cigar, and another woman helps greatly. =]
2007-05-01 06:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take out the lime and soda.
2007-05-05 12:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by lunachick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a strip club, topless preferabbly. or take a trip to vegas and visit the buuny ranch. the can always "lift" your spirits.
2007-05-06 10:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by kristina h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be a couple of those will drown the sorrow good drink dont waste it
2007-05-06 16:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by the big fella tours australia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋