At my job, we do work for this company...and at this company is a guy that I talk to every once in a while. I don't call him, he calls the business and I am normally the one that picks up the phone (i'm the receptionist there). He always hits on me. He even asked me one time if I was ready to have an "affair" yet. Every time he says something like that, he never says he is joking afterwards or just kiddin. I'm not uncomfortable with him saying these things b/c I think he is just joking around. What do u think...is he jokin around or is he being serious?
2007-04-28 19:25:52 · 9 answers · asked by mustanglvr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's definitely hitting on you.. There's no doubt about it.. If it doesnt really make you that uncomfortable and if you think the guy is ok, then you can also try flirting with him the same way, if you want to.. From the sound of it, I have a very strong feeling that you might also have a soft corner for the guy..
2007-04-28 19:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by vivekwaters 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but my opinion and experiences with idiots like that, I'm guessing he probably says it kind of in a joking way, since that's how you're taking it? I think he's serious and would take you up on it in a heartbeat, but he's playing it as a joke so if it ever comes back and bites him in the a$$ he'll say I was just joking around with her! And what's with the ready to have an "affair"? That's just saying basically a booty call.....or whatever they're calling them now a days, been out of the loop awhile lol...Ask him if his wife would have a problem with it :)
2007-04-28 19:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by tikitiki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 01:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by rode 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being serious, but doing it under a joking guise so as not to feel rejected if he is turned down. I also agree with 1st answer.
2007-04-28 19:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who would be having the affair - him, you or both? He may be a whack job - watch your step!
2007-04-28 19:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter. His behavior is unprofessional and inappropriate. If you want him to ask you out, then tell him. If you don't; then correct his improper conduct.
2007-04-28 19:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't cross my mind to say stuff like that just for the fck of it. so there might be something to it..
2007-04-28 19:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess he's serious but indirect!
2007-04-28 20:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by nima k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno, i would think he is joking
2007-04-28 19:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋