About how well should I know about a girl before attempting to ask her out on a date? I've been on the same team as her for test reviews in class (we do some type of jeopardy) and say hi or wave at her at times, but I've never really had a conversation with her.
If I catch her some time, would it be too blunt if I directly mentioned that I like her? Or, should I ease into it some other way (eg. ask about the weekend, and then say I spent my whole weekend researching on dating tips, etc.)?
2007-04-28 18:44:09 · 17 answers · asked by excelblue 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We do each others' names, and we do know a bit about each other since both she and I would make lots of comments about ourselves during class.
I'm thinking about asking her to study with me as she's really good at History. However, I think I'd look weak in that case since I really suck at the subject.
2007-04-28 18:53:06 · update #1
Hey, first things first. The only really thing you need to know about a girl before asking her on a date, are simple things. First, you should be attracted to her in some way. The other thing is, you should know what interests her or what she likes to do for fun so you can plan the date.
Dating is actually a way that you get to know someone. Now all you do is have to ask her out on a date. Don't tell her you were researching about dates lol. Girls like confident men. What we did was write a note asking the person out. I don't know if it is different now but maybe you should just go up to her at the end of class, beginning of class not too good because what if she says no and then you are upset in class, and just ask her if she has plans on a certain night, if she doesn't, tell her, "well I would love to take you out that night." Wait for her answer, if she says yes, get her number and call her about 2 times before your date to try to get some information about what she likes and then you have to make plans with what time and who is driving and all that. You seem like a nice guy, so I have no doubt in my mind that she will say yes. Good Luck and if you want to, lemme know how things went!!!
2007-04-28 18:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey- the whole point of a date is to get to know someone you're interested in! I'd say start a general conversation and work in an interest you two might share that you could use as an excuse to ask for her company outside of school. Like, maybe a movie or museum exhibit you have thought to see? And if nothing like that is available, then just go for it and ask if you can maybe buy her a drink or something after class at a nice cafe.
Good luck!
2007-04-28 18:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ruby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would start out by just being friendly and asking simple questions, like what type of music do you like, or what is your favorite tv show, ect, Get to know a little more about her. When you do ask her to do something do it as a group, because when you hang out you may find that you actually don't have any thing in common. Start off as friends, becaue friends make the best lovers.
Good luck
2007-04-28 18:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by privatecop625 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best course of action is to simply ask her out. Don't build an ivory tower that can get knocked down if she says no.
It doesn't have to be dinner, dancing and painting the town red. Ask her out on an after-school "Coke date" where you get her a soft drink. If that clicks ask her out for a movie and build from there.
Don't spend too much time beating around the bush. If you like her say so and act on it. If she says no then you know you need to save your energy for the real thing.
2007-04-28 18:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hi, and forget the word "date". Don't be serious at all. Ask her about her weekend, see her reaction, play with what she gives you. Just talk to her and see her reaction. If she likes to talk to you/be with you it should continue after school. If not then find someone else. Never be shy!
2007-04-28 18:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is coming from a girl... just ask her. honestly. you cant be any worse off. just bite the bullet and ask her to go out for coffee. if she says no she dumb becuase seriously who turnds down free coffee. but just going to do something casual will give you the chance to get to know her a little better and decide if shes really worth your time.
2007-04-28 18:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by lexielou17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she is attractive and seems to be a nice person
then that is enough to ask her out on a date...
2007-04-28 18:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask her out on a "date". Keep it casual. Just talk to her first.
2007-04-28 18:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? just ask to hang out or do something that gives you guys an excuse to hang out.
that's a date. don't make it formal. nobody has to say "this is a date", if you're chilling, you're chilling.
2007-04-28 18:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"hey...uhh....i want to ask you something....um..so you have some time?"
"yea, sure!"
"i was just wondering.....are you doing anything this weekened?
"NO YOU STUPID JERK! get away from me!!"
hahaha.....either that or you could get a...
her- "no actually... are you doing anything?"
you- "well, actually i was gonna go to the movies....and was wondering if you wanted to come along? it could just be you and me."
"like a date?"
"like a date."
"hows seven for you"
"seven it is."
"*giglgle* c u at seven then"
"c ya, *wink*"
AND THERE YOU GO! hahahahaaa....you like it?.....hopefully she says all that too....then i guess your screwed....hahahaaaa.....
2007-04-28 18:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋