i know shes my ex but right after we broke up, she used to call me frequently..now shes stopped...what could the problem..i have moved on but i enjoy our friendship...any ideas??
2007-04-28 18:03:27 · 30 answers · asked by Ask ME 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason she called you frequently was because she wasn't ready to move on yet. Apparently, you showed no signs to her that you two would ever get back together (which is fine). Since she has stopped calling you, it appears she has finally accepted the reality of the situation. Almost always when people break up they don't and can't remain friends. The only reasons she was calling you because she wanted to get back together. You say you've moved on, but if you miss her calls, maybe you haven't. Look inside yourself and decide what you want to do. If you think you miss her too much, call her and see if she wants to get back together. If you realize that you don't want to get back together, then just move on for real and forget her.
2007-04-28 18:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by bigreddog0388 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has self-actualized and realized that her calling you as if you all were still dating was a form of not totally letting go. If you are concerned I would give her a call and express that you do miss the friendship and your hopes that she will get back on the phone. But also ask her why and tell her you will respect her reasons for changing the friendship - it is afterall her choice too.
2007-04-28 18:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she just thinks it's time to let go of the past....And I think that you haven't moved on if your stuck on her not calling you...She doesn't have that responsibility anymore she's your "EX".....You should stop worrying about it and if you can't then you call her then maybe she'll start calling you more often sometimes girls think if you haven't talk to someone in a while then they won't remember you....
2007-04-28 18:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a blast from the 1980s which sums up my opinion:
Set me free why don't cha babe
Get out of my life why don't cha babe
You don't really need me
But you keep me hangin'on
Why do you keep a comin' around
Playing with my heart
Why don't cha get out of my life
And let me make a brand new start
Let me get over you
The way you've gotten over me yeah
You say although we broke up
You still just wanna be friends
But how can we still be friends
When seeing you only breaks my heart again
Get out, get out of my life
And let me sleep at night
'Cos you don't really love me
You just keep me hangin'on
2007-04-28 18:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by susantpa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has moved on too and is occupied with someone else.. but be careful because close friendships with exs dont always turn out good ...
Good luck..
2007-04-28 18:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by Proud to Be Mommy!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still likes u or mabey even loves u and she is 2 shy 2 talk 2 u. If she sees u on the streets ect. she prob avoids u, she get those butterflies in her stomach.
Amanda
2007-04-28 18:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by SissyPooJB 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shes interested in someone else. She was keeping you around as a back up plan.
2007-04-28 18:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by Lilia 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you broke up their was a reason if you like her company than you should have stayed together call her and find out what she want do do with your relationship
2007-04-28 18:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u havent moved on cuz ur still worried as to why she stopped calling u
2007-04-28 18:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by spayhappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pass away your households out of your relationship. no remember if its this one or the subsequent one. all of us's have been given their very own comments, yet all that concerns is what you 2 think of of one yet another and what you experience for the different.
2016-12-29 14:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋