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or when he cant open the front door
any good things i should try for him not to get so angry?

2007-04-28 17:17:28 · 10 answers · asked by ez-goin 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting Toddler & Preschooler

10 answers

DEAR

MISS

PRETTY PLEASE STOP THIS MATTER NOW ASAP
MAKE HIM SIT ON YOUR LAP FACE TO FACE AND ASK QUESTIONS LIKE MY LITTLE BOY WHAT IS YOUR

PROBLEM TODAY? DEAR HE CAN UNDERSTAND YOU DO NOT LET THEM LITTLE GREEN EYES BLUE EYES ARE BROWN EYES FOOL YOU HE UNDERSTAND YOU

ASAP HE JUST DOES NOT WANT YOU KNOW HE KNOWS BECAUSE HE KNOWS WHAT NO MEANS OK.

(2ND) SAY DO WE NEED A NAP AND A BUBBLE BATH WITH MOMMY AND A STORY IN MOMMY'S BED? IF HE SAYS NO SAY OK THEN YOU CAN HAVE YOUR WAY OK.

(3RD) SAY MOMMY SAYS IF MOMMY'S LITTLE BOY DOES NOT LISTEN TO REASON WHEN MOMMY TALKS THEN LITTLE BOY GETS A SPANKING ON HIS LITTLE

BOTTOM AND GOES TO HIS OWN BED PLEASE DEAR TRY THE FIRST TOO FIRST USE 3 AS THE LAST RESORT OK

PEACE
GOOD LUCK AND
TAKE CARE

2007-04-28 17:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0 2

Somewhere he has learned how to get what he wants in a very unpleasant manner. Stop this now or it can get way out of hand. Is there somewhere you can "quarantine" him for a while after hitting you? He has to learn that he can't bully to get what he wants. My son was not a hitter, but my second child learned that she could get her way by screaming and hitting her older brother. She tried that with me once, at about 2 years old, and I picked her up, yelled right in her face, "No hitting!" (which started her crying) and I held her away from me and placed her in a little-used playpen (my kids always roamed free in the house). Well, she screamed louder than I have ever heard a child scream - I was waiting for a knock on the door - but she quieted down, and after doing this 3 times, she learned that the only thing that happens is Time OUT! You may do it a different way, but basically, make it unpleasant for him when he acts out - you don't have to hit him back, either.

There are many, many resources for children's behavior. Do some reading to expand your knowledge to deal with the coming years. You will need it. All parents do.

Good Luck!

2007-04-28 17:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It may not be all anger...at that age, they're pushing boundaries, trying to see what they can and can't get away with.

My son went through a hitting phase too (though not biting). I'd immediately look him straight in the eye, use my "angry voice" (and angry face) and tell him "No! We don't hit!", and give him a time out. Regardless of where we were or what we were doing.

You will likely have to repeat this process several times for it to get through, but if there are negative consequences to these behaviors, eventually he'll get the picture and quit.

The longer you let it continue, the harder a habit it will be for him to break.

Good luck!

2007-04-28 19:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by michxenafan 2 · 0 0

Please, please, please do not bite him back....how can you say no biting then bite him????

If going outside strap him in a stroller....or get one of those harnesses...people will make comments or I will be told it is wrong even here...but it saved my 15 month old nieces life.

One person shook her head when she saw it on the 15 month old and said "I cannot believe you put your child on a leash" I replied "I cannot believe you want her hit by a car and killed or hurt" that shut up anyone who bugged me about it.

It is a good way to keep control over him....just say how it is dangerous.....when my nephew was 2 we told him it was against the law and a police man would not be happy....this worked well especially since a friend of mine who is a cop came by and asked him about it......worked for a child not thrilled with a car seat.

2007-04-28 20:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia G 4 · 0 0

It's difficult at that age but try and talk to him at another time when he's relaxed. Explain to him he can get hurt and that he's small and can't be seen. Make some consequences for not obeying you concerning those things. When he knows what the consequences are even if he doesn't understand the reasons he's more likely to listen when you tell him. You just have to find what his currency is so the consequences are important enough for him to remember. At that age they get angry when they can't do what they want so it's unlikely you can stop the anger.

2007-04-28 17:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by MissWong 7 · 1 1

i might opt to desire it incredibly is a point. My daughter is now 20 months previous and he or she went by a significant head banging point. She use to bang her head on each little thing. whilst she might bang her head on the wall, and that i might ask her to end, she might bang it extra durable and quicker till I have been given over to her. i finished reacting to her doing it and it has long gone away to an quantity. She nonetheless bangs her head on my leg or what ever area of me she gets to whilst she is mad. you may think of that because of the fact it hurts they might end, yet i contemplate whether this is because of the fact they like the sound it makes in there heads. i'm hoping that a majority of the failings she does is largely a point extraordinarily considering she is 20 months happening the undesirable twos. Head banging became hassle-free whilst in comparison with the appearance i'm getting from her now. good success, you will like it, all new mothers do.

2016-12-29 14:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

The hitting and biting is what you are going to have to address first.

If he thinks it is alright to hit you or abuse you, this is the tip of a very nasty pyramid. You won't like the looks of it as it emerges. Parental Abuse is not only something that occurs to old people in nursing homes.

2007-04-28 17:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 1 2

Whip his little *** now or he'll whip you later. Either that or he'll shoot up a school. I know that sounds harsh, but some of the best grown ups got their butts beat earlier on. I'm not saying you should abuse him, but he really needs a butt whipping. If he does that crap to someone else's child later, you could possibly get your butt kicked.

2007-04-28 18:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by meshock76 2 · 0 2

Bite him back to show that it hurts. He needs to learn it is not OK to hurt others.

2007-04-28 17:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3 2

Spank him.

He needs to learn that you are the boss, you deserve respect, and if he acts up, his rear is going to hurt.

2007-04-28 17:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 2 2

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