I am a female, am in my mid 30's have two children, own my home-car....etc... Met a guy 7 1/2 yrs younger... am I too old for him?? While I am worried about a mortgage and raising children he is young, single, and responsibility free....
2007-04-28 09:23:39 · 7 answers · asked by ReginaDarling 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dating this younger man is alright, since it's only dating. if hes immature, the signs would show soon when and if you bring him home to meet the kids, which is not advisable since you don't know for sure if he's here to stick around for long.
you won't be too old for him if you two connect and of the same intellectual par. ask how he feels about children. if he says he hates them, then obviously you need to let him go since you have two of your own and you come in a package. if he says he likes them, and you two have been dating for awhile, ask him to join you for a family picnic or carnival or something. see how he reacts and acts around your kids.
you can gauge from there if he sincerely likes you or simply wanted to fool around with an older woman. keep in mind not to pin your hopes too high, too.
best of luck!
2007-04-28 09:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by NCH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutley not ! Just be totally upfront and honest. Tell him you expect the same.
2007-04-28 09:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so hes in his upper 20's? sounds fine to me
2007-04-28 09:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's fine. there are a lot of big age differences now these days.
2007-04-28 09:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you make it a problem, it will be a problem. Otherwise, more power to ya!
2007-04-28 09:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by majestic_red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him, darlin'!
Been there TOO many times. (3, but once is bad enough!)
Mommy Dearest you are not.
2007-04-28 09:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
age is just a number,,,,,it will be a problem if you think it is,,
it is love that counts..
2007-04-28 09:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by mikcorp2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋